Cathleen F's ADC

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Do you have any comments about the relationship you had with the deceased:  Very close.  My Grandfather knew of my fasination of NDE's and ADC.  I told him that I would love to be visited by a deceased relative but I wouldn't want to "see" them.  To this day, he visits my sister and I by sitting on our beds.  His energy is distinctive and his habits of jingling his change in his pocket can be heard very clearly..but after all of these years and visits, he has never revealed himself as not to scare us as we discussed when he was alive. At times during the day, the smell of his cigarettes will come wafting in very, very strong.

Was the date of the experience significant in any way?  Well, needless to say, I am disabled with a bone disease called Avascular Necrosis and unable to work. It would be an understatement to say that I worry constantly about how my husband and I are going to make ends meet and take care of our 8 year old daughter.  I cry every night away from my husband and child praying for help...praying for support because I don't know how I am going to make it one more day with all of my worries...this is where my Grampa comes in.  He comes to me almost on a nightly basis when I am fast asleep, almost around the same time.  I literally wake up because I feel him knudging me to move over and move my legs and he sits with me while I fall asleep rubbing my legs until I feel at peace and forget my worries.  These experiences are EXACTLY what happens to my twin sister.  When I first explained what was going on with my and my "visits" she was overwhelmed with emotion telling me exactly WORD FOR WORD that that is what has been happening to her.  We share our visit stories daily and are amazed still at the shared details and the time of the visits.

Experience description: 

      Almost every night, after I say my prayers and ask for support and guidance, I worry myself to sleep wondering how we are going to make ends meet.  I wake up sometimes at 1:11 a.m., or 2:22 a.m. or 3:33 a.m. (don't ask me why the similar digits!!) and I first sense my maternal Grandfather in the room, I know it sounds strange, but I sense his energy as being him without actually seeing him!! It is as if I am seeing him but not his body.  He pushes my legs over until they are in a bent position (knees toward my chest and almost in a fetal position..and I know I am awake because it hurts me to bring my knee up like that since my botched hip replacement surgery, the pain in no uncertain terms makes me KNOW that I am awake) and sits on my bed.  Not only can you feel the heaviness of his sitting, but you can see the indentation!!!  He sits with me rubbing my legs until I relax and the communication is usually the same and without words spoken... telepathically.  I tell him how scared I am that we have no money and I don't know how we are going to make it.  He tells me that everything will be okay and that he will see to it that we are taken care of...and no matter what, within a day or two, miraculously we get money!! In the mail from someone unexpected, or a bonus check from my husbands work, something!!! It never fails!! Sometimes we just talk about nothing until I am soothed into a restful sleep.  The visit I get are shared by my twin sister who lives only about 5 minutes away from me.  We always compare stories and are amazed on a daily basis about being woken up at the exact time the night before.  Our stories are identical so I know that I am not going crazy.  I also have been visited by 2 angels that my daughter told me of, a beautiful story in itself.  It happened in the night of November of 2000 when I got out of the hospital from being hospitalized for double pneumonia...but that story, with real feathers and all left behind, would take another page or two!!!