Sandi D's ADC

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Experience description:

An acquaintance of Robby's was awakened in the middle of the night by Robby, and told to write a letter to his girlfriend and his family.  The letter gradually changes into Robby's handwriting.  Rob's girlfriend received the letter from this friend and didn't know what to think, so she brought it to us to see.  We all thought it looked like Rob's handwriting.  We even compared the signature to one on his credit card.  He talked about being sorry he wasn't true to his word and that he had hurt everyone.  He talked about reviewing his life and being in a very happy place.  He asked his girlfriend to go on and to be a good girl and find a nice boy and to listen to her parents and people who love here.

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?  Yes
Describe:  The week before Robby passed, I heard a crowd of voices telling me that Rob was using drugs again (he had been clean 7 months).  I heard these voices several times, but decided it must me my imagination.
Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally, or outside of you, inside of you, or did you not hear a voice or sound but had a knowing of what was communicated?  It was in my head, but nothing like I had ever heard before.
Is there any possibility that what you heard was from any other source in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  No.

Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?  No.

How long did the experience last?  Just a letter.  The girl who wrote it, just felt him and heard him until the letter was finished.  She wrote if very fast because she said he was talking fast.

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?  Don't know.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?  He was sorry he hurt us, but seemed rather happy to be where he was.
Describe:  He was sorry he hurt us, but seemed rather happy to be where he was.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  Only that he was very happy where he is.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience:  Experience was probably real

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  I was skeptical at first.  Then I felt relief to think he still lived on someplace.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?  Yes
Describe:  Relief.

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  Yes
Describe:  We review our lives and gain knowledge.  We live on.

Has the experience affected your relationships?  Daily life?  Religious practices etc.?  Career choices?
  Life is short.  I am trying to see God in everyone now. I want to live right so I can be with my son.

Have you shared this experience with others?  Yes

      Describe:  I only share with people I am very close to.  I don't know if they believe me or patronize me.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?  No

What emotions/feelings did you experience following your experience?

What was the best and worst part of your experience?
  The best was we heard from him.  The worst was it was the last time, I miss him.

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?  I have had other experiences with this kind, but not for a few months, they were in the first 6 months.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?

      Describe:  I am a kinder more compassionate person.