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Ashley's ADC

Experience description:  

I had a dream. In my dream I walked into my house. It was strange because my house was surrounded by trees. He was sitting on my counter with his legs pulled up and he was very swollen. I asked him was he ok. I also asked where is your car. I said Tomas where is your car and he just shook his head. I had never seen his car before but I knew it was a small black car. I woke up the next morning and thought that was odd. When I arrived to work I got on my facebook to tell him to stop messing around in my dreams. What would make him think I would want to dream about him. It was going to be a joke. Once I got on his facebook I saw RIP. It went on forever. I felt sick. I thought no way so I googled his name. He was killed in a car accident. He side swiped another car and hit the trees head on. He and the passenger were killed. The two boys in the back were thrown from that car but lived. I knew all about this and the details before I found out.  

When he comes to me in my dreams he is very upset and angry. This last dream I had at first he was happy then he left and refused to talk to me.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  Yes

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?            Yes

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:    His voice

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  he usually doesn't talk in my dream. the last time he was talking.

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           sounded the same

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           nope

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   Well I was dreaming. What is my hearing suppose to be?

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            Yes

He kissed and hugged me.

            Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   familiar

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  No

            Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  I was sleeping. I think not.

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

The first time he was very swollen. I knew there was something wrong. After that he looks normal but he's mean.

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            Solid

            How much of the deceased did you see?       All

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       The same age

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            At first he looked dead. After his funeral he has looked normal.

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No, I was sleeping.

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

First time he was so upset he couldn't believe what was going on. Then he was always kind angry. He never talked to me. Always went into another room and just sat there. This last dream we talked then he left and wouldn't come back.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  Yes. He let me know he had been killed. I don't understand. I only really met him once and kept in contact on facebook.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           I thought about this a lot. I talked to people and got several different opinions. But, how would I know that he died and how? I found out a week later after his death.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   Yes

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           I was like wow why did I dream about him last night.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           No

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      There is nothing good about my experience. Tomas is dead. The worst is I don't understand what he wants with me. He has a family and a fianc´┐Ż he cheated on. Shouldn't he be haunting them????

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         No                  

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
   Yes     I wish sometimes they would stop.

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            No      

Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?   No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            When I woke up. I was like Wow I haven't talked to him in a while. I'm going to send him a funny message saying stay out of my dreams. Then when I logged on Facebook and saw RIP all down the page. I dropped my phone and got sick. I cried. I cried for many months after this. I wasn't close to him. But why did I get this. Shouldn't he go to his family if he wants to communicate with people.

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Uncertain

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Yes

Did you become aware of future events?       Yes

It runs in my family. My mom knows when planes crash. I know about world events. I dreamt the London train bombings. I knew Haiti was going to be destroyed. In my dream I could describe the people the island and the flooding but I didn't know it was going to be Haiti.

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         Yes

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No

Did you see a light?           No

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            Yes

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes     I told my mom and she said welcome to my world. I told 2 other people and they didn't know what to say. They changed the subject.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes