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Billie C's Daughter's ADC

Experience description:  

I was cleaning my kitchen and my two year old daughter was sitting at the kitchen table facing the windows coloring. Out of the blue my daughter said I see your dad mama and he is watching you. I looked at her and said what did you just say? My daughter was looking out the window and never looked at me as she repeated herself. My daughter said I see your dad he is watching you. I ask my daughter where, she said right there in the window. I ask my daughter if she sees my dad in the big window, she said no in that window. We have one big window in middle of two smaller windows on each side of large window. I then said you do, she said yes he is watching you and he's smiling, I said ok. She than said he is with my friend, I ask who her friend was, she never answered. My daughter than said he is calling you your phone is ringing, I said ok. I never heard my phone ring it was outside on porch and she could not of heard it ring either. I went out side on porch and picked up my cell phone to call my husband not my home phone. My cell phone said one missed call, I clicked to view missed call number and the number that came up was 1(255)8. This isn't a whole phone number as you can see. I then pushed to call missed call back and heard this number can not be reached please check the number and try again. I thought that maybe the whole number didn't show up, but it would dial last missed call, that wasn't the case. I then felt chills because my daughter didn't know my father, we never speak about him and how did she know this stuff or that my phone was ringing when it was outside. I then received the same number that day again as a missed call. I haven't received another call since then. This was on 06/19/2007 and today's date is 06/22/2007. I last spoke to my father on 06/19/2005 and he committed Suicide three days later on 06/22/2005. Please let me know if this is real what happened and how my child at two years old would make this up out of the blue when she doesn't know my father nor have I spoken to her about my father, she was 11 months old when my father passed. Help me to understand.

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:    didn't hear deceased father, but child claims she seen him and he was watching me and calling me.

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  didn't hear only from my child don't understand what happened and if this can happen.

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           NA

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           NR

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   NO

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            No

Did you see the deceased?         No

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No comment

            What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?           NONE

            Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?     NA

            Was anything communicated by the smell?   NA

            Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?        NA

How long did the experience last?        5 MINUTES OR LESS

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         NA

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           No

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  My daughter told me that he was watching me and that he was smiling

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           I don't know if it was real, but how can my 2 year old child come up with this

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           asking my self what was going on with my child why she was saying these things and how could she know the things she did.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Uncertain

not sure what to think

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      not sure what to think

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes                 Describe:            Husband said that I was crazy and that my daughter was just talking that things don't really happen like that

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Uncertain     

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes Was told that my father was calling me and my phone was ringing. I couldn't hear phone ring and neither could my daughter. I then went to use phone when showed missed call outside.

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            unsure, felt chills and then remembered that on the same day two years ago was the last time I spoke to my father's suicide three days later

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Yes

My daughter that didn't know my father. My daughter was only 11 months old at the time my father passed away. My daughter is 2 years and 11 months old now.

Have you shared this experience with others?        

Yes     My husband and my mother. Husband said I was crazy and that daughter was just talking. My mother got chills.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       no, I have said everything that has happened

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes

every detail 

Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.    please help me under stand what went on and if this is true and can happen