Bonnie P's ADC 1049
AFTER DRIVING 4 HRS BACK HOME FROM HER FUNERAL, I ALMOST HAD A HEAD ON COLLISION FROM A DRIVER WHO WAS DRIVING IN THE WRONG LANE. IT WAS A MIRACLE THAT I VEERED OUT OF HIS WAY. WE HAD BOTH STOPPED AND I FELT I KNEW THIS PERSON. HE FELT THE SAME. WE EXCHANGED #S AND WENT ON OUR WAY. THE DRIVER BEHIND ME, ALSO STOPPED AND TOLD ME HE SAW THE WHOLE THING AND HAD NO IDEA HOW I PREVENTED THIS ACCIDENT. (MAYBE IT WAS FROM ABOVE? )
AN HR. OF ARRIVING HOME, AND STILL SHAKEN FROM THE PREVENTED ACCIDENT, THE PHONE
RANG. AS I PICKED IT UP THERE WAS STATIC ON THE LINE. IT WAS MY GRANDMOTHER
TALKING IN A LANGUAGE I HAVE NEVER HEARD BEFORE, YET I UNDERSTOOD WHAT SHE WAS
TELLING ME. SHE WAS LETTING ME KNOW THAT SHE WAS WITH GOD ( SHE WAS VERY
SPIRITUAL IN HER LIFETIME) THAT SHE WAS HAPPY AND FOR ME NOT TO GRIEVE FOR HER
BUT BE THANKFUL SHE IS HAPPY. SHE TALKED FOR ABOUT 30 SECONDS TELLING THAT SHE
LOVED ME SO MUCH AND ALSO SAVED ME FROM THIS ACCIDENT. I WAS SO FRIGHTENED THAT
I HAD TO HANG UP. AFTER CALMING DOWN, MY GRIEF LEFT, NEVER TO APPEAR AGAIN . I
KNEW SHE WAS IN A HAPPY PLACE. I FELT IT.
Was this experience difficult to express in words? Yes
AS A 22 YR OLD IT WAS DIFFICULT TO EXPRESS. I WAS VERY FRIGHTENED WHEN THIS HAPPENED, YET, EXHILARATED THAT IT COULD POSSIBLY HAPPEN, AND TO ME. I FELT VERY BLESSED. AS A YOUNG PERSON I COULDN'T TALK ABOUT IT AS I DIDN'T THINK ANYONE WOULD BELIEVE ME. I KNEW WHAT HAPPENED THERE WAS NO DOUBT EVEN AT THAT AGE.. NOW AS I AM OLDER, I UNDERSTAND MORE AND SEE THIS WAS AN EXPERIENCE ONE CAN NOT EXPLAIN. BUT BELIEVE? YES, I BELIEVE.
Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?
Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased? Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated: SEE THE EXPLANATION ABOVE.
Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated? YES I KNEW IT WAS HER. HER VOICE, HER TONE. I UNDERSTOOD THE LANGUAGE SHE WAS SPEAKING.
If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive? IT WAS HER VOICE
Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience? NO ONE ELSE WAS IN THE KITCHEN WHEN SHE CALLED
Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience? NONE
Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased? No
Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience? NO
Did you see the deceased? No
Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? No
How long did the experience last? ABOUT 30 SECONDS. THE TIME WAS INFINITE WHEN THIS HAPPENED.
Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden? VERY SUDDEN. LIKE A DOOR OPENED TO THE UNEXPLAINED, THEN CLOSED JUST AS FAST.
Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased? Yes
VERY CALM. VERY VERY HAPPY. AT PEACE.
Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know? ABOUT THE ACCIDENT THAT ALMOST HAPPENED. EXPLAINED ABOVE.
How do you currently view the reality of your experience? Experience was definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real: DUE TO THE FACT THAT THIS HAS HAPPENED 3 TIMES TO ME. BY THE ONES I LOVED THE MOST ON THIS PLANET.
Was the experience dream like in any way? No
Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience: FRIGHTENING DUE TO THE FACT THAT IT NEVER HAPPENED TO ME. THE UNKNOWN. WE ALL FEAR THE UNKNOWN. SCARED, CURIOUS, AT PEACE.
Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? Yes
I BECAME CLOSER TO GOD. I KNEW HE EXISTED. I HAD PROOF EVEN IF NO ONE ELSE BELIEVED ME. I KNEW I JUST KNEW.
What was the best and worst part of your experience? THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE I FELT WAS THE BEST.
THAT MY HUSBAND, AT THE TIME DIDN'T BELIEVE ME. IT MADE ME STAY SILENT FOR MANY
Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? Yes Describe: I AM A VERY SPIRITUAL PERSON. HAVE BECOME MORE SO WITH IN THE LAST 7 YEARS. I CAN FEEL OTHERS EMOTIONS.
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience? Yes I BECAME MORE OPEN TO THE UNEXPLAINED. I ACCEPTED WHAT WAS OR IS.
Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.? Yes THERE ARE A LOT OF THINGS WE DO NOT UNDERSTAND IN LIFE. WE DO NOT USE BUT A SMALL PART OF OUR BRAIN. I BELIEVE THERE IS A CHANNEL THAT OPENS DURING THIS TIME OF GRIEF AND THE DECEASED WHERE THEY CAN COMMUNICATE. BUT I BELIEVE THAT THE DECEASED CHOOSES WHO TO VISIT. MORE ABOUT THAT IN MY NEXT QUESTIONNAIRE ABOUT WHEN MY FATHER DIED.
Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact? No
BUT MY GRANDMOTHER ALWAYS TOLD ME SHE WILL BE SO HAPPY TO SEE GOD. SHE ALWAYS SANG SONGS ABOUT WHEN SHE GOES TO HEAVEN.
Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later? No
What emotions did you feel during the experience? PEACE. RELAXED. HAPPY FOR HER. KNEW SHE WAS OK.
Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others? No
I RAN AND TOLD MY HUSBAND BUT HE DISCOUNTED IT.
Did you have any sense of altered space or time? Yes
YES. LIKE EVERYTHING WAS AT A STANDSTILL JUST FOR A MOMENT.
Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose? Yes
MY GRANDMOTHER HAD A HORRIBLE LIFE, YET I KNEW SHE WAS HAPPY, TRULY HAPPY AND WITH HER MAKER. FINALLY.
Did you become aware of future events? Yes
I WOULD TAKE A LIE DETECTOR TEST TO PROVE IT.
Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience? Yes
IN TIME MY "ALL KNOWING" GREW. I FELT I KNEW WHAT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN. I DEVELOPED LATER AN AWARENESS OF OTHER PEOPLE AND WHAT THEY FELT INSIDE. I FELT THEIR PAIN, THEIR PAST, THEIR HURTS.
Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body? Yes
YES I DID. ALL THREE TIMES. NEVER THOUGHT OF THIS BEFORE BUT IT WAS SORT OF A TRANCE WHEN IT HAPPENED. AND SO QUICK. IT WAS OVER BEFORE ONE KNEW IT HAPPENED. THEN ONE NEEDED TO THINK FOR A MINUTE AS TO WHAT EXACTLY JUST HAD HAPPENED. IT WAS A "STUNNED" FEELING.
meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
Did you see a light? No
Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above? No
Have you shared this experience with others?
No PLEASE DO NOT THINK I AM EITHER MAKING THIS UP OR CRAZY IN ANY WAY. I DON'T TALK ABOUT IT TO OTHERS LIKE I HAVE EXPRESSED HERE. I DON'T THINK IT WOULD BE UNDERSTANDING. ONLY TO PROFESSIONALS WHO ARE AWARE OF THIS TYPE OF THING.
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site? No
Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience? PLEASE READ MY NEXT TWO EXPERIENCES THAT I SEND TO YOU AND YOU WILL SEE WHY I BELIEVE. WILL SEND LATER.
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience? No
NEVER TOOK DRUGS AND DO NOT DRINK
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience? No
Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event? Yes
WHEN I WAS 7 I WAS RUN OVER BY A CAR. ALMOST DIED.
WHEN I GAVE BIRTH TO MY 1ST CHILD.
DURING MY LIFE, DURING A DEEP GRIEF PERIOD IS WHEN IT USUALLY HAPPENS.
Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience? Yes
QUESTIONS WERE GOOD. IT HELPED ME LOOK BACK AT THE EXPERIENCE AND REALIZE THINGS I HAD NOT BEFORE.
Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire. THANK YOU FOR THE STUDY IN THIS. I NEVER READ ABOUT IT TIL NOW. I HAVE RECENTLY TALKED TO OTHERS WHO HAVE HAD EXPERIENCES OF SOMEONE COMMUNICATING TO THEM AFTER A DEATH. I STARTED TO RESEARCH. ITS TOO COMMON. AND I FOUND YOUR SITE. THANK YOU.