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Deborah B's ADC

Experience description:  

I was counseling a cancer patient in his last stages.  He had a fear of leaving his family and death.  We talked about death and used hypnosis to help with his pain control. Spoke about options. After 3 weeks of working with him, I woke up about 1:30 am and looked at the bedroom door.  There he was standing there, glowing, happy; I got the sense he was telling me everything is okay now.  I called the hospital the next morning about 10:00 am and the nurse told me he passed in the night, perhaps about 1:00 am

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?            No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          No

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

Standing, flowing energy, translucent

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            transparent

            How much of the deceased did you see?       full body, less beard

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       yes appeared to be the age at death

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            Two orange size cancer tumors protruding through rib cage and diagnosed as incurable

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           I believe he came to me to let me know he was okay with his passing

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           It only lasted seconds, yet seemed suspended,  Confused at first then quite calm

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

After the experience, there was a little grief in his passing -- then calm knowing he was okay

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Knowing he made a decision and was clear and felt okay

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes                 Describe:            More open to opportunities

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Yes     Proof

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        Yes, but not with this person

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes Called hospital and nurse confirmed death

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            Curiosity and excitement to confirm the next morning

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           No

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   Yes

Seconds passed, yet seemed timeless

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Yes

Knowing of his passing without knowing it in the physical.

Did you become aware of future events?       No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?            No

Did you see a light?           Yes

Just surrounding the patient

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            No

Have you shared this experience with others?        

Yes     Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           Yes 

Many OBE's and dimension stuff

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes