During my dream i saw jerry sitting at a table.  He told me jami was going to have a boy and that they were going to name the baby after him.  he also told me that he was very happy were he was.  in the next dream he told me that the chest was it... he just kept saying that.  well come to find out he was shot in the chest once and then in the head once.  his mother at the time (i was not aware) was feeling really bad that maybe he suffered  but it was like he was telling me he didn't.  also in that dream he showed me getting in a car and going up north .( in MI that's what we call it like going to a cottage)  that was a fond memory as a child.  he also told me that his friend Andy was very upset and was calling his mom and making her upset.. i did not know he had a friend Andy.  he also showed me someone sleeping on a couch .. come to find out his brother Joe had been sleeping on the couch.  i am not sure if there is room to explain later but now i can just sense his presence, and others also. this is very strange for me. basically it all started 3 months ago while i am awake.  its like the John Edward thing... but who knows why?

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

when he died he was not overweight, but heavier then when i saw him last 2 yrs prior at his sisters wedding.  he looked like 30 lbs lighter but the same in the face

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            very clearly like he was sitting in front of me

            How much of the deceased did you see?       i always see him from the waist up

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       he appeared to be younger only like 5 yrs younger.   when i remember him before he started working out

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            he looked healthy and there was no wound on his head

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no, it was him

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

            Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?        no

How long did the experience last?        the dream i am not sure but the others experiences are anywhere form 1 minute to having him around in my head like i feel his presence for 15 minutes

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         it seem to be gradual

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  yea all of his information was true thing i did not know it seems to have brought his whole family peace

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:            everything he told me was stuff i did not know... and he has open the door for so many other spirits,  i have helped so many people in their grieving.. i do not charge anything to do it. i think if you have the gift it should be free

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           i couldn't figure out why he was coming to me out of all the people he could have..i guess

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      just being able to help others

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes

            Describe:      my relationships are better and i am not really shy anymore

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?   Yes

i am just a calmer and happier person and i have jerry to thank for that

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Yes

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            i was happy to call jami and tell her

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          

the first two times were while i was sleeping so nobody witnessed... but now i sometimes do it for others while i am awake... it can happen at anytime now while i am do dishes or sitting in the backyard whenever

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Yes

i just tell the families what their loved ones are showing or telling me

Did you become aware of future events?       No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         Yes

yes i do now i can communicate with the deceased as described above

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes

my husband thinks i am weird but everyone else is excited

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       i would like to share this information and anything else you would like to know. there is much more that i can not put on paper for time factor