First of all I don't write well, so please excuse me. This was one of the first dreams that I really remember at 15.( my mother said I had many, and I remember being scared of dreams when I was small.) This girl Kathy was a year a head on me in school a soph, I was a fresh.  In the dream she came to me at the curb were she was sitting in front of the high school. She told me Scott, her brother had "gone on" so easily but she wasn't ready yet. I don't think I said anything I just listened, which happens in all experiences, unless the spirit asks me something.  She seemed confused and had her chin in her hands leaning forward. I knew she was died in the dream but did not know before this dream, the car accident had happened that night. she spoke a little more and then said okay I'm ready. and then I woke up. I told my mother the whole story/dream. I found out that day that Kathy and her brother had died.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?

No, but some experiences. have been.

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?         

No

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?         

No

but, in other experience, not dreams I have felt light pressure, it is very hard to do and takes a sprit a lot of practice to make anything happen on this side (that is what I was told by a boy/sprit that had visited me)

Did you see the deceased?       

the same as I had seen her at school

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            solid

            How much of the deceased did you see?       all

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?            same age

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            fine

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?  

No

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         

just reg.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?         

Yes

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know? 

yes. true.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?        

Experience was definitely real

          Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:  

I have know this all my life so it really isn't a big deal to me. it's real. sprits come to tell us "stuff" and that's it pretty simple. for me, like a radio wave sometimes it's clear and sometimes its not.

          Was the experience dream like in any way? 

Uncertain

I was more real then a dream.

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:        

intense

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?         

Yes  for me and the others it may evolve.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?   

not sure.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?      

No     

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?   No          Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?         Yes    I know there is so much more after this life on earth.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?      N0 comment

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?         No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?          tired, thoughtful.

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          No

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?     Uncertain

Did you become aware of future events?      No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?           Yes

this is hard to know because I was so young. I do think I have gotten better at connecting.

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?          No

Did you see a light?         No

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?         No

Have you shared this experience with others?        Yes    my mother who is also a dream person. and a few friends and family. quite a few of family members have this ability.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?      no

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?     No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?    No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?  Yes, spiritual events with people that have passed on.

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?           Yes