It was like i
was standing in a room that had urn lamps in it with nothing else there. It was
dark other than the lamps and as I recall and told my wife, i saw her walking up
to me. She stopped and ask if i knew who she was, and I said, yes but why
are you here? She then asked me who I was and I told her and she said she knew
this but had to be sure. I again asked why she was here and she said she needed
to talk to me.
I then ask here why she done it and she said why did i do what. My wife always
believed that she killed herself by hitting the tree intentionally. she the told
me that they knew better than that and that she would have never done anything
like that. I could see her face, clothing, the scarf she had around her neck the
item in her pocket etc. She told me that if they had looked they would have seen
what happened and I asked what that meant and she again said the same thing and
again I asked what she meant. She then told me the hole in her head was caused
from a gunshot not the wreck. I asked what she meant and she said I was shot in
the head while I was driving and I did not wreck the car on purpose.
I was able to describe in detail to my wife things about her that I had no way
of knowing. Her clothes that she was buried in, the buttons on the lapel the pin
on her collar the scarf around her neck and the pattern on it. I could see a
mark on her head where she was injured in the wreck, I could see the marks on
her hand. I could see that her eye was swollen and did not blink like the other
eye. I could see something in her pocket but could not tell what it was. The pin
on her jacket i could tell was an angel I could tell what color the suit was and
how many buttons were on it and the size of them. I told my wife all these
things and she just looked at me as if there was no way I could have known this
because she never discussed them with me. After she was finished talking she
turned and walked away and that was the last time I saw her.
Did you hear the deceased or
hear something associated with the deceased?
while I was asleep I could hear her speaking
Did the voice or
sound seem to originate externally, or outside of you, inside of you, or did you
not hear a voice or sound but had a knowing of what was communicated?
I dont really know I was asleep but it was like I was right there
If you heard a
voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar to the voice or sound the deceased
made when they were alive? I
never heard her voice before this
How clearly did you
hear the deceased? she talked
to me and told me things about herself and the accident
Is there any
possibility that what you heard was from any other source in the surroundings at
the time of your experience? no
Was there any
possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
Did you see the deceased?
appearance of the deceased: I
saw her standing there talking to me and though I never saw her or knew her and
for certain did not attend her funeral I relayed in detail things to my wife
that I had no way of knowing without being told or seeing them such as the way
she was dressed, her hair, scarf, the place on her head from the wreck ect. I
never saw her while she was alive
How clearly did the
deceased appear? solid
How much of the
deceased did you see? from
the thighs up
Did the deceased
appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
I don't know.
I never saw her before this
How healthy did the
deceased appear to be? I
Is there any
possibility what you saw was from any other source present in your surroundings
at the time of your experience? no i don't think so I was asleep
How long did the
experience last? not sure
Was the beginning and end
of the experience gradual or more sudden?
about the same as I recall
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased? she was not upset in any way It was like she was very anxious to
tell me something
Describe: she was not upset in any way It was like she was very
anxious to tell me something
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
she told me a lot of things about the wreck and it was believed that she was
killed in the wreck but she was telling me that if they had looked they would
have seen that it was not the wreck at all.. There was not an autopsy performed
on her as per my wife.
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience: Experience was definitely real
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
as i recall I was confused as to why she would come to me when I didn't even
attitudes and beliefs about your experience do you currently have:
Other Attitude or Belief
Would like to know why this happened and what it was suppose to mean
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
not for me but my wife said she felt better about the whole thing
Did the experience give you
any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?
Was the experience dream like
in any way?
was asleep and had no other explanation for it but it was too realistic so I
don't know how to explain it
Have you shared this experience with others?
I told my wife about it about a month after and she was shocked and said that it
had to be real because of the detail
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
the best and worst part of your experience?
not knowing why
anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
not really other than would like to know why
Did the questions asked and information you provided
accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?
don't really know how to understand and that's what I am looking for