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Experience description:  

I was in my bedroom sleeping, I heard a knock at the back door I open the door and there was my wife in a long dress it was the one she was laid to rest in.  Diana looked good and made a comet about the necklace she had on. I put my arms around here neck and kissed here, I could smell the perfume she use.  Diana said I love you and I said I love you and miss you very much.

I need to go back about 1 month before she went to be with the lord.  Diana said I want you to get married again, I said I have gone thru 5 years of cancer with you, I don't want to get married again. Diana's words were this "I will find a wonderful woman for you."   

Well at the time of the visitation I had just found a lady on the internet, and we had just started to meet each other and each time we saw, we found the more we had in common it was unreal. it was God sent.  The last words Diana said was I have brought this lady to you.

At that moment Diana was gone in a flash, in the blink of eye.  11 months later in Dec 2001 I got married, and it has been wonderful again and we are looking at 4 years together Dec 15.

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   Diana's voice was clear and it was her voice, just as if you heard a voice in the other room and you could tell who it was, without seeing them

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  the voice was out side of me.

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           Yes

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           NO!

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   NO!

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            Yes

We were out side the back door and it was evening.

            Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   It was a warm touch I would feel her arms around me.

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  There was a kiss, but it was not a moist kiss more of a dry kiss.

            Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  NO.

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            As if she was there, the only thing that was strange, she had no shoes on.

            How much of the deceased did you see?       full body head to foot.

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       She look the age she was and she had the biggest smile I had never seen when she was alive.

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            She look good. before she died she had no hair because of the chemotherapy.  but this time she had a full head of hair.

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           NO

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      Yes

            Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?     Yes

            Was anything communicated by the smell?   no

            Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?        NO

How long did the experience last?        3 to about 5 mins

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         More Sudden.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes  Happy.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  The information was very helpful to me.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:          It was real to me, maybe not to someone else but it was very real,

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           I was so happy to see my wife one last time.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

I was able to love again and get married again, I had told my first wife I would never marry again and that really got to her. I told her I never could go thru cancer again with a love one but now I can.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      The best part was seeing my wife that passed on and the worst was seeing her leave.  I have had no new vision of my last with only one time.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes    

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  Yes     I much stronger in my faith and know that there is a afterlife.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        Yes

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            Happy no sadness, grieving or angry.

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes     to my new girl friend.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes