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Janet B's ADC

Experience description:  

1) 2 weeks after Chris died I was laying in bed feeling sorry for myself and was in a state of wanting to take my own life as I missed my man so much and I could not believe he had died I was half awake at 3.05am when I heard my name almost screaming at me but echo sound like it was bouncing off mountains 

2) Tingling touch sensation must nights when I am reading in bed 

3) My lights flicking and then went out completely while my daughter was in shower. 

4) My kitchen clock stopping on 3.05am along with our wrist watchers 

5) My mattress moving at night like somebody got up off it 

6)Dream very vivid I saw Chris like I was looking through round porthole and looking down on him, he was sitting cross legged playing like a dice game, he had on light grey t-shirt which was V shape in the front and I really noticed his tight curly hair, he did not have tight curly hair when alive, the ground was red dirt and the background was a white marble structure with Roman pylons steps and 2 wooden doors, Chris sat at the base of the steps looking happy and smiling. I woke up almost running off the bed and I was awake very quickly I will never forget this dream as long as I live and it was around 5 months after Chris died

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  Yes

I started telling my work mates and nearly everybody I knew but they all looked at me like You poor girl type look. I am 52 years old and after feeling this touch like a feather moving down my leg with tingling sensation, when it stopped I waited for a couple of minutes and asked him to do it again and within 1 minute or so it started again, I am dumbfounded and tried to talk myself out of all of this but it kept happening up to this date of writing

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:    Very Very clear I heard my name shouted out at 3.05am because it startled me and I got out of bed, it was like a desperate scream

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  Definitely outside of me

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           I cannot be sure it was Chris's voice but he had a loud voice at times and it sounded like I was paying attention so he yelled at me in frustration,

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No my 88 year old mother was in the other room and the 2 girls were at their fathers place and I was at Mums place which is over 55 resort

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   NO

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            Yes

Back of hips bottom and down the back of legs, head, butterfly fluttering on lips and like I have cobweb on my face and arms sensation. I can only describe it as feather touch with tinkling sensation and slight electric shock feel. I was even poked in the bottom one night and I told him to cut it out and I am very sure about this!

            Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   How can I judge? a Physical touch is different from a gentle airy touch, I have got to the stage of waiting for it when I go to bed I know I am not insane and feel it. Chris was the only person her used to massage me nightly for 2 months before he died his touch was soft and soothing then and where he touched me was familiar I don't know any body deceased who would be that intimate , not my Dad or brother?

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  NO words as such but Chris was not a bloke with words more a labor intensive guy. No it has only happened to me since Chris passed away I am sure he is trying to tell me something, I have to work it out?

            Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  No way I am a quite person living quietly so I know what I feel

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

Vapor/mist spiral shape in front of my face and it zoomed through my stomach and out the back around the car and hit my friend on shoulder and left the car passenger window but entered on the drivers side I did not see any body form or face so I cannot be sure it was Chris but this happened weeks from his death I have never seen any thing like it

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            Vapor/misty no body or face just shape

            How much of the deceased did you see?       Nil as above

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       As above

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No I had a witness

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

I often feel he is not happy the same how I feel not happy, he is anxious to reach me, we had many plans for the future and we were happy with each other,

he loved his life and us me and the 2 girls my daughters, we had many laughs together and fun, I don't think Chris would leave us if he had choice? But I know he might miss the touch side as he was very tactile in life

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  No he was not a talker anyway

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           I have had many of these coincidences happen to me and I knew Chris very well, he would certainly try to reach me as he loved me and we both would feel the same. These experiences have even made me try to see him but I can't

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           I have been angry with him for leaving us in such a mess Chris was not prepared for his early exit, 36 years old is not old and he had so much to give, I reckon the other side would of had a hard time with him kicking and swearing his head off like I said I know him!

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Uncertain

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Wanting Chris to come back too life and realizing that was impossible

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes    

What other attitudes and beliefs about your experience do you currently have?         
No particular attitude                    
I believe there is something a lot greater than us and we will all find out one day when our time comes to cross over.         

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Yes    

Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?   Yes

Chris and I discussed this what if type conversation but I cant remember what he said but I would try and contact him if I died first!

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            I doubted myself and my imagination but after thinking about it and time has healed me a little I believe it all happened without any doubt now

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Yes

Kerry my friend saw this mist movement as well in the car 

I have felt touch many times while relaxing and in my office at work 

I have felt my mattress spring back like somebody has stood up after sitting down my puppy stared into the corner during the night wagging its tail and just string into the corner ??

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   Uncertain

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Uncertain

Did you become aware of future events?       No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         Yes

My senses have been a lot stronger picking up on peoples thoughts and predicting future things

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     Yes

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?            Yes

In one or 2 dreams I would have to go into detail but their were other beings around but not close to me and animals

Did you see a light?           No

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            Yes

Have you shared this experience with others?        Yes    

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           Yes 

I have seen the ghost of a boyfriend of mine from school who was killed in bike accident at 16 years old

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes