Julie H's ADC

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Experience description:  

 l woke up about 3.30 am and started thinking about things and started to get upset and the next thing l heard footsteps coming down the hall l knew straight away it was Steven.  I could hear his voice; he was laughing.  Then he stopped outside of my room and l was just about to turn on the lamp and he said don't mum. l stopped and l reached out my hand and l called hi.  The next thing his face was just in front of me and he was saying that everything will be okay and that he will always be there for me.  All the time he was talking to me l was looking at him and he was beautiful.  He had a mauve color about him and his voice just filled the whole bedroom.  l realized his mouth was not moving.  Then all of a sudden we kissed on the lips like we always used to do.  Then we cuddled but l could not feel him.  It was wonderful and after that l felt so much better - like a peace.

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?  Yes
Describe:  l was sitting with friends when all of a sudden l heard mum mum l turned and saw no one and l thought that sounded so much like Steve and when l turned back my girlfriend was looking at me and she asked me if l heard that and l asked her what she heard and she heard exactly the same thing.
Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally, or outside of you, inside of you, or did you not hear a voice or sound but had a knowing of what was communicated?  the voice was externally and it was very clear.

If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar to the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?  yes the voice was the same as Steve would have called me, same tone, sound, everything.

How clearly did you hear the deceased?  so clear my girlfriend heard it the same time

Is there any possibility that what you heard was from any other source in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  none we both asked a couple of our friends if they heard it and they said no they looked at us stupid

Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?  none what so ever

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?  Yes

Where and how were you touched?  l explained in question 3

Was the touch familiar?  familiar even though l could not feel him it was so familiar

Was anything communicated by the touch?  just felt he was comforting me

Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in your surroundings at the time of your experience?  none what so ever l was home alone

Did you see the deceased?  Yes

Describe the appearance of the deceased:  he looked exactly the same nothing changed except he looked so happy

How clearly did the deceased appear?  sometimes solid sometimes a little transparent

How much of the deceased did you see?  sometimes all, other times just his head

Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?  the age at which he died 20

How healthy did the deceased appear to be?  he looked perfect beautiful healthy, happy

Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in your surroundings at the time of your experience?  none what so ever

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?  yes always smiling looking so peaceful
Describe:  yes always smiling looking so peaceful

How do you currently view the reality of your experience:  Experience was definitely real

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  overwhelming to see and hear him again l felt comforted so happy to see him

What other attitudes and beliefs about your experience do you currently have:      Joy

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?  Yes
Describe:  I'm not as angry

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  Yes
Describe:  definitely, l know now that they live on that there is something else my son has reached out so many times to tell me l am no longer afraid of death.