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Experience description:  

I've had many different communications with my son since he's passed nine months ago. 

One of the major communications we have had with him repeatedly was with the blinking of one of the overhead recess lights. The light blinks in a way I've never seen before and in different patterns and hues.  If you shake the light, nothing occurs.  After the communication, he may not communicate with us for a week of so or may do so the next day.  All the other overhead lights work fine and one will shut off for a full minute and then do a rapid blinking pattern, light blinks, or bold blinks.  It truly is amazing. 

He also communicated with my best friend's step-grandson who was a newly turned three-year-old.  He told his mother that Jackson was upset.  After establishing it was the right Jackson, she asked him why.  He said because his mommy cries all the time and that she and his daddy were staying in a hotel and he was in his room.  It was too painful for us to move home for two months after my son passed.  Brayden's parents didn't explain to him the Jackson had passed.  They didn't know how to explain to a three-year-old about death and also they were not that close to us, only meeting a few times.  He explained that Jackson's room was upstairs even though he had never been to our house. 

One other highly significant experience was when I was talking to Jackson telling him that I'll never be happy until we are in heaven together again.  At the end  of that sentence the car windshield wipers went up once and then down.  I looked around, making sure I didn't press anything, and then inspected it when I got out and nothing was turned on. 

A medium told us to look out for the red dragonfly.  We started seeing a bunch of them and then we went to stay at my aunt's place in Kennebunkport, Maine.  A red dragonfly flew up to me and landed very close.  I got out my camera and took a picture.  Then I called for my husband.  I asked the dragonfly, 'Is that you Jackson?' Immediately afterwards, the dragonfly nodded its head. I didn't even know dragonflies could do that. 

I'm in  very deep grief. He was my only son and I am devastated.  These experiences have helped a little.

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?         Uncertain

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   The floor board creaked before he would come into our room.  One night the floor board creaked the door opened slightly and I felt his presence come up to me.

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?            Outside

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?           Uncertain

Lips tingling and energy like a hug

Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?  Not sure

            Was anything communicated by the touch? Love

Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?          I don't think so

Did you see the deceased?        No

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?   No

How long did the experience last?       A minute or so

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           No

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:         I have the light videotaped.  The dragonfly was real and the timing was amazing.  The windshield wiper was real.  My friend's grandson had no idea we were staying in a hotel plus he was a newly turned three-year-old.  I talked with both patently and separately to see if they happened to mention Jackson's passing or the hotel and they both were convinced that their son saw and communicated with my son

            Was the experience dream like in any way?  No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:          I get very happy when he communicates with us.  I love my son more that anything is this whole world.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?          Yes

A little.. I'm in deep grief but when he communicates it takes the edge off.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?     I guess just losing my son in general. I would get rid of these experiences to have him back.  I'm angry he was taken from me and still don't want anything positive to come from this.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?       Yes                 Describe:            I'm researching more and more about life after death.  For some reason my skills working on people have recently dramatically evolved.

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?  Yes     That there is something more that just this earth.

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?   Yes     I know that was my son communicating with us.  It is life changing.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact? No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?    Yes. My friend's grandson didn't not know we were in a hotel or even that Jackson passed.  He didn't know Jackson's room was upstairs,

What emotions did you feel during the experience?           Happiness and pride that he was so amazing with communicating with us!

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Yes

My husband had also seen the light and the dragonfly experience.  The car one, I was on my own but we both have had separate experiences as well.

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?   Yes

I'm starting to understand more and more but when he communicates I know it's him and that is life changing!

Did you become aware of future events?       No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?     Uncertain

I'm a chiropractor and I do some energy work.  I've experienced feeling energy

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?           No

Did you see a light?          No

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?          No

Have you shared this experience with others?        

Yes     A lot of people believe or are amazed that "they really do communicate with you after"

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience? No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?      No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?                     Yes