Maria L ADCs
My mother passed away on 9 March 2001 after a 1-year battle with stomach cancer. On Valentine's Day, I had given her a gift-wrapped rose which she then put on the altar(she was Catholic).
On Easter Sunday, about a month after she passed away, the rose inexplicably disappeared. We had noticed it on the altar just two days earlier(Good Friday). It has never been found, despite the family looking in very nook and cranny.
Soon after the first occurrence, a vase of silk flowers my mother had bought was mysteriously moved from the TV console where it was placed to a sideboard a few meters away. I had noticed it on the console just a few minutes before I saw it on the sideboard. A friend whom I confided in asked me to check whether there were numbers on the vase as she told me of a common phenomenon-associated with local Chinese culture-of people buying lottery with numbers ostensibly from deceased relatives . I turned over the vase and saw a price tag: $29.00. Though skeptical, I bought the number at a lottery outlet the next day out of curiosity -my first and last try at this form of gambling. The number 0029 came out as a consolation price on that day ! Though I didn't win, I am convinced it was a message from my mother.
Was this experience difficult to express in words?
Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them? Yes
Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased? No
Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased? No
Did you see the deceased? No
Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? No
How long did the experience last? Not sure
Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased? No
How do you currently view the reality of your experience? Experience was definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real: It was a concrete occurrence witnessed by me and my family members
Was the experience dream like in any way? No
Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience: Occurrence 1: I was just doing some work on the computer which was next to the altar when I noticed the rose was missing, and was at first angry, thinking one of my family members had removed it. Then very puzzled after I asked my family members and no one had touched the rose at all.
Occurrence 2: I was watching TV when I noticed the vase had
been displaced from the TV console to the sideboard. I was very perplexed at
first and couldn't believe my eyes. My other family members couldn't account for
Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? Yes
I was assured my mother was in a better place, still existed in some dimension and that she had forgiven any hurt I might have caused her while she was alive.
What was the best and worst part of your experience? I was comforted by my mother's message of love from the other side, and know there is existence after death
Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? Uncertain Describe: I became interested in spiritual matters, and the afterlife, especially in the last few years. I have just read Dr Eben Alexander's 'Proof of Heaven' and Anita Moorjani's 'Dying to be me', and watched videos on NDE and reincarnation on Youtube.