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Marilyn M's ADC

Experience description:  

Before I start I need to explain about Maria and Jonathan. They stole my Partners Truck and Ken's Prized possession his Yamaha and no one could find them. 

I know how weird this will sound but I had to share this with you.

Tuesday Morning I had a dream that I was sleeping and Ken shook me awake long enough to tell me Honey I am going to get my bike today see you later and Gave me a kiss told me to go back to sleep and rest. I woke up feeling Happy yet emotional that I had been able to hear Ken's voice again even if it was just a Dream in my head at that time. 

4 Hours later I got a phone call from one of our dearest friends all she could say was Mary your not going to believe this, Jonathan Maria Truck and Bike are in front of me on the side of the road she then turned around to find out what they were doing. As she passed them again they had the tailgate down and were writing something on a piece of paper and Jonathan was pulling the bike into this person's drive way. My friend turned around again because she was going to follow them but they took off before she had a chance to go in their same direction. I asked her to get the address off the house and then proceeded to call my lawyers office but of course my Lawyer was busy with another client so I relayed the message to his secretary telling her if they sold this bike to these people we need to get a hold of them so they could stop check because it was illegal and she agreed so I gave her the address and she said Please repeat that and I did and she said Listen Lady I don't know any Jonathan or Maria with a Bike I never bought a bike and have no interest in one and I was like woe what are you talking about I never accused you because she was very upset and she explained Miss that's my House so Please go get the Bike off my property. I then called Tina (ken's sister) and Wl (Tina's Husband) and Wl went to the house and my friend and his son and myself to make sure it was Ken's bike even though I had no doubt it was. There was a note on this bike stating they had a blow out in front of their house and had no choice but to leave it but they would return shortly to retrieve it and they left this number 704 763 ****. As we were pulling the bike onto the Trailer the police pulled up and we called Tina she brought the sealed document and the judges signature to prove they had indeed taken this bike. We had the right to remove it. Then my friend and me spotted Jonathan riding past us with his ear to the phone and before the police could go after him he had gave them the slip but the nice police officer still tried. As we got the all clear from the Lt. to move on My friend and Myself saw a Man on a bike passing us waving with the biggest smile on his face he looked just like Ken even wore the same jacket as Ken wore and it left us all warm and joyful as we looked at each other and looked back that man was gone and we looked back at each other and muttered nu uh and giggled. But all I can tell you is we felt this warm joyful feeling all around us as if Ken were standing beside us in a very Happy mood it was so full of Love and it only lasted a minute or 2 but I know in my heart we felt what we felt. 

I do believe God works in so many ways you will never know what he will pull out of his Hat Next. 

They still have the truck were still after them and the law is on our side. 

How is it I had that dream then they have a blowout and pick my lawyers secretaries house to park it at and our dearest friend was at the scene at the right time and we got the bike back as he told me in my dream he was getting his bike back that left everyone of us scratching our heads and the Lt. said I bet your Partner saw this as his chance of getting the bike back to you all and he said I just don't see any explanation other then that because of the way it happened. It was then that it really Dawned on me was my dream actually Ken communicating to me? 

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?            No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:    I heard him in my dream he was going to get his bike.

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  It was in my Dream.

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           He sounded just like he always sounded.

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   no

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            Yes

I felt his kiss in my Dream I don't know how to explain it because it felt warm.

            Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   yes very Familiar

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  a Kiss

            Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  no

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

I saw him in my Dream and I am not positive but our friend and I both saw this man on a bike riding past us with the biggest smile that looked just like Ken and wore the same Jacket Ken loved to wear we looked at each other a split second and looked back and the man was gone and that's a long road.

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            100% Clear

            How much of the deceased did you see?       All of him just as if I was standing in front of you.

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       He Looked just like he did right before he died.

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            Extremely Healthy

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      Yes

            What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?           In my Dream I smelled his cologne.

            Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?     Fragrance

            Was anything communicated by the smell?   no

            Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?        no

How long did the experience last?        As long as my dream lasted and afterwards when we felt him because my friend felt him too because I asked her do you feel that and she said yes it amazing.

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         Gradual it took the span of the day with everything happening after that dream.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

He was in a Great Mood.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  He told me he was getting his bike.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           The dreams he said I am getting my bike and that very same day we got his bike it was left at my lawyers secretaries house and our best friend witnessed it or that secretary would never have realized that bike was stolen.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   Uncertain

I am starting to wonder and relook at my dreams since this experience so yes it started in a dream but came into reality.

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           Joyful strong Clear minded Blessed

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

That day was the first day I started to feel the Heaviness that was weighing me down be lifted from me and I am calmer and can feel Blessed and thankful again.  Don't get me wrong I am just Human I still have my bad days its still fresh but its nothing like it was before that day not even close.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Best Part hearing Ken and feeling his kiss and his warmth and Love.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes                 Describe:      I am able to smile now and be thankful.

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
   Yes     I am stronger since it happened.

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Yes     But I must tell you I had a NDE when I was very little so I know there is a afterlife the things I told my father after he gave me CPR and brought me back he said could never have come out of a little girls imagination. I didn't realize that my Dreams that I have been having that actually started after my mom died and dad and then Ken were real communications I figured they were just Memories playing in my dream world but now I think its their way of communicating to me perhaps since this last ones events played out the way they did.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        Yes

Yes with my Mother on her deathbed I asked her to give me a sign and Ken because he used to tease me because I loved debunking the paranormal so he told me if the afterlife is real I will make sure I give you some proof you cannot dismiss because I was always saying I need positive proof, even know I have seen the other side. I just didn't believe we came back here for any reason after being there once.

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes there is a police report does that help.

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            Amazed Thankful Blessed and calm.

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Uncertain

I had a Dream I called someone told them about the dream and 4 hrs later many people witnessed my dream come to life.

Have you shared this experience with others?        

Yes     Everyone was amazed and would seem to react the same first saying Wow then OMG I bet it was Ken only one person said they had to have more proof but that's just the way he is very closed.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?            Yes
My widows site.

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       I think I covered it pretty much.

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           Yes 

When I was 9 years old I was very sick and my parents worked just across from our house. I walked to the store behind our house and bought Dayquil and Nightquil because I wanted to get well fast because school had a field trip the next day. I Took both of them at once two full adult doses and went to sleep. My Mom and Dad came home to check on me because they knew I was sick that day. My Mom walked into my bedroom she said I was standing there staring into space and suddenly I was screaming Redhot over and over and over, and the boarder at our house yelled slap her awake and without thinking my mom slapped me and I fell back on my bed and my heart stopped along with my breathing. I felt myself being lifted up I was facing the ceiling but I looked back saw my Mom crying and my Dad was trying to pump my heart yelling for the boarder to blow air in my lungs and I saw the board blowing on my mouth without even touching my mouth it was like he was blowing up a balloon. Then I felt as if I was still connected to my mom as she was on the bed holding my hand below where my body was I could feel her warm hands on my little hand pleading with me not to go and I was pleading for me not to go in my mind because I didn't want my mom to be sad but then something I can only describe as a Vacuum effect was sucking me through this Dark tunnel and I was scared because I didn't wanna leave my mom as I felt this pull I lost my moms grip and saw this light far above as I got sucked in further it grew and grew and I could see people around me some traveling past me and some I passed and I heard a voice not yet my child then suddenly I was back but with the knowledge that there was life after death nothing more just that. I told my Dad what I saw and how I saw him giving me CPR and how our boarder was blowing in my mouth without touching my lips like blowing up a balloon and how my mother held my hand in both hands pleading for me to come back. They said my eyes were shut so how did I see and hear everything if there is no afterlife?

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes

It was very long but I can understand why you need to ask so many questions. 

Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.    I think you pretty much covered it.