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Experience description:  

i had made an ADC pact with my fianc´┐Że, when it became apparent that she would not live much longer.  Then, her time came. We had agreed that she would call me over the telephone, if she could, at a certain time  of day, that call came, exactly on time......i heard, and spoke to the voice of the person who's ashes i had spread on the wind....i asked many questions, only some of which could be answered, and made arrangements to receive calls in the future, and i have, quite often, and since that time she has also used computers to communicate, as well as showing herself and speaking to me without the aid of electronics. Her sister has also had all of these experiences, and in the same forms, and it continues to this day.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?            No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   her voice, very clearly heard, we discussed our love, the life we now couldn't have together, went over some of the aspects of what she was dealing with in her afterlife, as well as some troublesome situations that i would soon be facing that she wanted to help me avoid.

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  it was external at first, later becoming different incidences of both inner and outer communication

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           it was exactly the same...weak at first, but gained greater strength and volume over time

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           absolutely not

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   just the amount of static on the phone, which i was told was the sound of other spirits, ones who's voices i was not "attuned" to hear...sometimes the static makes it hard to is notable that this static doesn't occur during any phone calls from anyone else...i am inclined to believe it isn't my phone

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            Yes

i was squeezed on the posterior, and again on the hand

Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   it was was my love

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  caring, compassion, love

Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  i do not believe so, it was very distinct

Did you see the deceased?         Uncertain

during the experience related above, i did not see her, that came later

How clearly did the deceased appear?            solid

How much of the deceased did you see?       all

Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       the same age, judging by appearances

How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            she seemed in excellent health, compared to her health at time of death, however, she had slight vision problems and wore glasses or contacts...when "coming down to this plane" she had to resume that condition...her sight was not perfected after death

Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      Yes

            What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?           musk

            Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?     it was the musk she wore everyday

            Was anything communicated by the smell?   just her identity, that it is her smell

            Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?        no, i was cooking dinner at the time, and was surprised when i smelt the musk, and it made me stop in my tracks because i KNEW it had to have something to do with her, or THAT particular smell wouldn't be in my house, at all, where the primary scent at the time was spaghetti sauce (her favorite dinner)

How long did the experience last?        roughly an hour

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         beginning and ending were rather sudden, but we did get to say goodbye, so it was a "time's up" factor for her, rather than a sudden cutoff

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

very much her love, and her sadness at being separated from me, as well as her great concern for my welfare

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  i have been given information i could have gotten no other way, from her, but it is of a very personal nature, and cannot be shared

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:            everything that occurred, the things that were said, the code words we had arranged before her death all matched, she had knowledge of the things i had done since her death, and some of those things were things no one could possibly have known, i KNOW it was real

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           i felt wonderment, elation, i felt blessed

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      the best part was talking to her at all, the worst part was when it ended

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?   No

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Yes

i'm sorry, but these things are of a very personal nature, and i cannot go into too great a detail on them

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        Yes

yes she was....we agreed that she would try to contact me any way she could, but would especially try the phone, at a certain time of day, on no certain day in particular

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            wonderment and elation, a sense of hope

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Yes

the voice of the deceased was heard by myself and a few others, both in our own "inner ears", as well as over the telephone

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Yes

that there is a God, that there is a spiritual hierarchy, that there are many many levels in the other worlds, and deeper levels of the afterlife, and of conscious awareness itself

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         Yes

i am beginning to "see" things....people who are no longer living, visions, flashes of understanding of  situations i have no info to be able to understand or judge from

Did you see a light?           Yes, blue light

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            No

Have you shared this experience with others?        


i shared this with the deceased's sister...she has experiences to match, with this same soul...we constantly verify the reality of this, even if no one else in the world believes it possible

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       no

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           Yes 

i have had conscious obe's for many years

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes