Minny C's ADC

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Experience description:  

My husband made my friends promise, that they would take me to the ocean if something happened to him, well after the arrangements were made in the early afternoon we drove to the coast and decided at the last minute to spend the night... We talked and discussed why and all the unanswered questions.. As we sat by the window a rush of air entered the room  even though all the doors & windows were closed... as I laid down to try and sleep  my husband gave a kiss on the cheek... I can sit and write this and still feel those lips on my cheek..I started crying and my friends who had retired to their bedroom asked me why,   when i explained, they had felt his presence also.

I was sitting in my chair and relaxing listening to Yanna on Cd, out of nowhere my grandmother dressed in a dress of multiple bright brilliant colors walked with me in a meadow full of wild flowers... The light that surround her and the beauty was so much words can not describe how I felt... I saw her swirling as a girl would dance a May dance.

Did you see the deceased?         Yes.  my gram looked light and joyful  not crippled and heavy with pain

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            very clear as if I could touch them

            How much of the deceased did you see?       upper body on my husband   and all on my gram

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       my husband , yes   my gram No she looked old, but youthful   boy does that make sense huh???

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            Don looked tired,   Gram looked like she was joyful and not suffering from any pain

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           NO

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

Don was sad, but  resigned:  Gram was smiling

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:          Both experiences left me feeling closer to them..

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           I just felt peace to know when I pass they will meet me there

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

just accepting change,  knowing that I don't need to rush to meet them, when its my time they will be there to greet me

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Best was the feeling of love,   The worst, wishing it happened everyday and night...

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes

            Describe:      More willing to communicate with those I love and care about... I feel like my purpose to be here for friends and family that develop cancer... I have had 4 friends since my husband died that have had cancer and while I don't caregiver like I did with my husband,  I certainly am a sounding board for the families and advocate for the patient...

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Uncertain

why we can not see beyond the veil... How few moments we are here.. let everyone know how much you care

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        Yes

My girlfriend and I have promised to come back and play a music box for each other

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            peace

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Yes

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?   
I sometimes can know things about people, but if its a gift or just reading peoples body language I don't know

Did you become aware of future events?       No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?       Just my nightly   tube experiences

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?            Yes

Every night for 6 months after my husband passed as I would drift off to sleep It was like I looked down a tube and all these faces would come flying at me...

talking, but I couldn't hear anything, and not reaching for me, but pleading through their eyes for me to do something... never did find out and the faces were always different...so it wasn't a repeat type dream

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       Whether, as many grief books say about, grief causing visions, or that the mind tricks us  I know what I felt and saw is real... and if not so be it  I will find out when its my turn

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes

Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.    I have spoke to my friends about this, but never put it on paper before.. Its almost like I can feel them sitting here helping me write this. Especially my husband telling me to go spell check...