I saw my dead Partner .....as if he was alive and with me........but I could not do anything to connect to him........totally frozen and time stood still

I was in the Grocery checkout line and there he was standing with dry cleaner clothes over his shoulder....same exact shoes and clothes he wore ..and I could not move as if I was in a vacuum...I saw him walk out the door and disappear ..I looked at my friend and he did not see him....I was "frozen" and could not grab or follow him.

 Was this experience difficult to express in words?          Yes

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          No

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            No

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

as he was in real life..........very natural

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            totally clear

            How much of the deceased did you see?       all of his body  head to feet

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       same age

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            healthy

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           NO

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

How long did the experience last?        approx a couple of minutes

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         gradual ..and sudden as in real life walking out of the grocery

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

smiling and happy

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           Just as if he was never in the car wreck

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           I wanted to be with him. but a vacuum kept me frozen in time

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

It gave me reason to believe in the afterlife

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Best is seeing him....worse is not being able to be with him

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes                 Describe:      I study this subject to broaden my scope of the subject             

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?   Yes     the fact that I saw my dead partner

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Yes     It made me believe that he still was existing

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            Joy of seeing him

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           No

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   Yes

could not control my moving and emotions

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Yes

I have studied Life after death and a firm believer in it

Did you become aware of future events?       No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     Yes

Not able to move or control my wanting to follow him

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            Yes

as above I said that I felt his presence in my apartment complex.. I went so far as to visit a guy in the next building and he was warm and compassionate. and I felt it was Geoff

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes     they believe me as they too have had similar experiences.( ie...grandmothers death and etc )

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           Yes 

when  12 years old I had a OBE  ..I felt free and loved it.  And tried many times to reproduce it without success

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes real experience 

Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.    none