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Sarah T's Daughter's ADC

Experience description:  

My daughter has been having nightmares for about a year because of trauma she endured from my ex husband for many years. We have tried counseling, I told her to pray and ask the angels to protect her but she continues to sleep in our room or with MANY lights on in her room, hallway, and bathroom ALL at once. Then this morning, while making my coffee, my daughter came to me and said she was visited last night by my daughter Megan. (Megan passed away 13yrs ago from congenital heart disease.)

She described Megan perfectly as a 13 year old girl, but Megan died when she was 4 months old. Hailey went on to tell me Megan doesn't like it when I cry because she died. (I have never cried about Megan in front of Hailey). She told Hailey there was no need to be scared, because she was watching over her like a big sister should. Megan also said in her room she had bunk beds and one bed would be Hailey's one day. Then she told Hailey to tell me I was right, she is a guardian angel. I have never said that to Hailey, But I have always thought Megan's purpose for being here only four months was to teach me to be a good mom for my other kids. So I have often thought of her as my guardian angel. Before she left she told Hailey she would always be there for her and to tell me she loves me very much and not to be sad. Megan told Hailey she didn't have blue wings but her favorite color was blue. My friend, Christy wrote Megan a poem at her funeral about Megan asking for blue wings. Hailey never knew that. Hailey never knew Megan since she died three years before Hailey was born.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?            No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:    read above

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  outside

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           She was a baby when she died.

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   no

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            No

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

Hailey said her hair was long and was brown, when Megan was a baby her hair was black. Hailey also said Megan had blue eyes, which Megan did have when she was alive.

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            Solid

            How much of the deceased did you see?       all

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       She died at 4 months old and my daughter described her as she would have been at 13 years.

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            Happy and healthy. She had congenital heart disease.

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

How long did the experience last?        about 30 minutes

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         sudden then gradual

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes


How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           It is real because there is no way Hailey could have known the things Megan told her without really having that conversation with her.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           Safe

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

Hailey is no longer afraid..

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Knowing my daughter who died is happy

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes                 Describe:            Hailey can now sleep without nightmares

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
   Yes     Hailey is no longer scared     

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?     No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            No longer scared

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Yes

My 10 year old daughter.

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    No

Did you become aware of future events?       No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     Uncertain

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?            No

Did you see a light?           No

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            No

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes     I don't care.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               No