FIRST ONE IN MY KITCHEN DAY AFTER SHE PASSED A LARGE DISH CAME FLYING OUT OF MY KITCHEN CUPBOARD THAT I RARELY USE.  THE DOOR IS VERY HARD TO OPEN AND NO ONE HAD BEEN IN THE CUPBOARD.  I WAS THINKING ABOUT HER AND IT HAPPENED. 

THE SECOND ONE I WAS DRIVING HOME FROM WORK AND I WAS ON THE HIGHWAY CLOSE TO HOME, JUST ROUNDING A CURVE ON THE ROAD AND I SAW HER FACE WITH WHITE ALL AROUND IT.  AS I CAME UP THE ROAD A BLACK SUV PULLED RIGHT OUT IN FRONT OF ME.  I HAD NO TIME TO STOP OR MOVE WHATSOEVER.  I HIT THE SUV WITH SEVERE IMPACT AND WALKED AWAY FROM THE ACCIDENT WITH NO INJURIES WHATSOEVER.  THE 3 TIME WAS JUST NOT LONG AGO IN THE KITCHEN OF MY HOME, RIGHT NEAR THE SAME CUPBOARD.  I HAD JUST SPENT TIME TALKING TO MY SISTER ONLINE ABOUT HER MOVING TO GLENCOE WHEN RETIRES.  WAS DISAPPOINTED THAT SHE WAS CONSIDERING MOVING BACK IN WITH THIS LOSER GUY SHE USE TO LIVE WITH INSTEAD.  ALL OF A SUDDEN SOMETHING TOUCHED MY HAND AND LEFT A MARK OF COMPRESSION ON IT AND MY MOTHER CAME TO MY MIND ALL OF A SUDDEN.  I AM FREAKED OUT ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I WAS NOT CLOSE TO HER.  OUR FAMILY HAD TONS OF ISSUES BECAUSE OF MY CONTROLLING FATHER AND I WAS THE ONE DAUGHTER WHO SPOKE HER MIND AND NEVER WAS AFRAID TO STAND UP TO HIM.  I LEFT HOME VERY YOUNG AND NEVER HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITH EITHER ONE OF THEM.  MY MOTHER ALWAYS GOT MAD AT ME FOR SAYING STUFF TO MY FATHER ABOUT HOW HE MISTREATED HER.  SO THIS IS REALLY FREAKING ME OUT AS TO WHY SHE IS HANGING AROUND IN MY KITCHEN.  I HAVE FELT HER OTHER TIMES BUT NOT HAVE SEEN HER OR SOMETHING MOVING OR TOUCHING ME.  I AM THE ONE WHO CAN SEE AND PREDICT THINGS OF OUR FAMILY AND ARE ASKED BY MANY FRIENDS FOR ANSWERS TO THINGS.  I DO NOT ALWAYS HAVE THE ANSWERS BUT THINGS JUST APPEAR TO ME.  LIKE A FRIEND WHO I KNEW WAS PREGNANT BECAUSE SHE WALKED IN AND I SAW THE BABY WITH WHITE AURA ALL AROUND HER.  JUST THINGS LIKE THAT.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?            No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          No

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            No comment

ON MY LEFT HAND

            Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   UNFAMILIAR BUT I DID THINK OF MY MOTHER RIGHT AWAY WHEN IT HAPPENED

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  NO

            Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  NO

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

THE ONE TIME I WAS IN THE CAR ACCIDENT I DID SEE HER JUST BEFORE, ONLY HER FACE WITH WHITE AURA ALL AROUND IT

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            VERY CLEAR, SO CLEAR IT MADE ME THINK I WAS CRAZY

            How much of the deceased did you see?       JUST HER HEAD

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            SHE LOOKED FINE

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           NO

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           No

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  NO

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           I FEEL MY MOTHER WAS TRYING TO WARN ME OF THE BLACK SUV BUT SHE COULD NOT OTHER THAN SHOWING ME HER FACE.  AS FOR THE KITCHEN STUFF I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY SHE IS  IN MY KITCHEN AND TRYING TO CONTACT ME.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           SCARED AND FELT CRAZY

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           No

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      I THINK THE BEST WAS MY MOTHER APPEARING BEFORE MY CAR ACCIDENT AND I THINK SOME HOW SHE SAVED ME FROM GETTING HURT.  THE POLICE SAID THAT THE PERSON WHO WAS IN THE CHEVY ON THE HIGHWAY SHOULD NOT BE ALIVE AND THERE I WAS SITTING ON A CURB ALIVE AND WELL.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         No      

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?   No      

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  No           

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?   No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            CONFUSED AS TO WHY SHE IS WANTING TO BE AROUND ME

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           No

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Yes

Did you become aware of future events?       No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?            No

Did you see a light?           Yes

ONLY WHEN I SAW MY MOTHER JUST BEFORE MY CAR ACCIDENT, SHE HAS LIKE A WHITE AURA LIGHT AROUND HER HEAD

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            Yes

IN MY KITCHEN BUT I DID NOT SEE HER

Have you shared this experience with others?        

Yes     Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       I GUESS I AM LOOKING FOR ANSWERS MORE THAN ANYTHING.  THE RECENT HAD TOUCHING THING HAS ME THINKING THAT SHE IS FOR SOME REASON OR OTHER TRYING TO CONTACT ME.

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           Yes 

VERY BAD CAR ACCIDENT BUT LIVED AND DID NOT GET HURT

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes