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Experience description:  

My first experience with my deceased cousin was in 1983. He had been killed the previous year and my family and I had gone to visit his parents (my aunt & uncle) who lived over 2000 miles away from us.  I was to stay in his old bedroom.  The first night I had felt a strange presence in the room, a coldness but not overwhelming.  I just felt that somebody was there watching me. There were a collection of his baseball caps on the wall and one evening as I was just lying on the bed, one mysteriously fell to the floor.  No movement or wind could have done it, for it was a basement room. I asked my aunt about it the next day and she said the same thing had happened to her just a few days after he was killed.

The floors are very creaky in the house and there is a distinct sound to the kitchen door that leads outside.  I would hear someone walking the halls in the middle of the night and the door slamming shut.  Everyone was in bed. 

The next really prominent experience was in 1989. I had just had my first child 3 months before and my husband and I had gone to visit my family in that same house. It was our first night there and I had brought the baby monitor so that I could listen to my baby if she happened to wake up in the night. She was in the room next door to mine in a crib. I woke up due to noises that I heard on the baby monitor.  First I thought I was dreaming, but then I could not only hear my baby daughter wiggling in her crib but the sound of a male voice, talking very sweetly to her. I wondered who it was, since I knew my husband's voice and I knew it wasn't him.  I listened for a while and decided to get up and check on her.  When I came into the room where she was, I got a sudden chill but no one was there. The fine hairs on the back of my neck stood up and I picked up my baby and brought her into bed with me. I wasn't scared, but I just felt weird, a feeling that I cannot describe to this day. 

The next morning, I told my aunt about my experience and what I heard over the monitor.  She said that it was exactly what Scott used to say when he talked to babies. I never knew that before.  The following few nights after that, I would hear the same creaking of someone walking up and down the hallway and then out the back kitchen door, since it was such a distinctive noise. The next morning I asked who was up walking the halls and went outside. They all said they were in bed, no one admitted to being awake at the time that I heard these noises.

Was this experience difficult to express in words? No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

          Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?         It was a male voice that came across the baby monitor when no one else was there. He was looking at my baby and in a way I feel he was watching over her.

          If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?         Similar

          Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?      Absolutely not

          Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience? NO

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?          Yes

Just a soft cool whisper of a breeze when I walked into the room.

            Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?         NO

Did you see the deceased?        No

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?   No

How long did the experience last?       Sometimes it was over an hour and the hearing experience lasted about 30 minutes.

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?          Sudden. I heard it, listened to him for a while then when I came into the room, he stopped, or at least I think he did because I didn't have the monitor with me anymore and couldn't hear

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          Yes

Forlorn, sweet, thoughtful

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?         Experience was definitely real

          Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:   Because I not only saw it, I heard it and my aunt & uncle have heard the same noises and just knows that it's their son......

          Was the experience dream like in any way?  No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:          Confused as to what was really happening. Was I experiencing what I thought I was? Yes indeed!

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?          Yes

A feeling of peace knowing that there is more after the earthly body dies

What was the best and worst part of your experience?    Knowing that when one becomes a spirit, you can still visit those that you have left behind until you are ready to pass over.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?       No     

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
   Just a confirmation of life after death

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?          Yes    Explained in question 25.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?      No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?         No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?          Peace

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          Yes

With the most recent experience in 1989, this involved my infant daughter, who was 3 months old at the time. His voice could be heard over the baby monitor that I had in her nursery and I was in the adjoining room.

Have you shared this experience with others?        Yes    They were fascinated! I don't know if they were influenced in any way but they do believe me

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?      no

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?     No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?    No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?  Yes  OOB experience when I had pneumonia.

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?           Yes

Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.          None that I can think of now. I hope this will help in some way of what you are researching. I do research on NDE's so I know how important this information is. Thank you for having this site. I'm so glad I found it!