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Experience description:  

During my sleep somebody shook my shoulder strongly. I opened my eyes and there was my dead father standing by my bed. I sat up surprised. He told me "Be quick. Find your brother!" I was very scared because I was totally awake when I saw him and he was so real. I can even smell his special scent. I run to my mom's room and wake her. It was 3:30 at night. Because she knows my dreams come true (she has the same ability too). we make coffee and begin to wait. At 6:00 my brother came home walking. He had a car accident at 3:30. Even the police couldn't believe how they could get out of the car alive.

I didn't think it was very abnormal. I was used to my dreams that came true and other experiences. But at this time I was an atheist.  I thought that these kind of things are common for everybody but they consider them wrongly from religious or fundamentalist point of views. Although I thought for a minute it was my fathers ghost with the events shock but later (never believing ghosts) I thought I communicated with my father by the means of my (may be a little bit more working) brain waves. I was a materialist and believing that if you are even dead your brain waves are going on to exist in the space, like radio waves etc...My point was taking the same wave.

Have you had multiple experiences?
   Yes     2

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   I heard his voice, he said the same words 2 or times. I smelled his scent.

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  It was so long ago but I think both.

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           Similar.

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No.

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   No.

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            Yes

He shook my shoulder until he waked me and when I sit up his hand was still on my shoulder.

            Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   Familiar. Strong but affectionate.

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  Reliance.

            Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  No.

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

In his pants and shirts he used to wear at home usually. His appearance was as the time he was alive.

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            Solid. Like he was standing there as alive as he was before.

            How much of the deceased did you see?       All except his feet which were out of my sight. I was on the bed and his feet were not in my sight area.

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       He seemed at the age he died.

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            He seemed very healthy. He had not have any infirmities before he died. It was a sudden death.

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No.

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      Yes

            What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?           His usual smell. You know every person has an own smell. You can differ your sons or husbands shirt from that smell. It was like that.

            Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?     Yes. It was his smell. As always like newly shaven or had a bath.

            Was anything communicated by the smell?   No. But I just felt happy to feel the smell.

            Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?        No.

How long did the experience last?        2-3 minutes. I am not sure because I was shocked.

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         Beginning was sudden but the ending was I am not sure. I run to moms room leaving hem there.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

He was in a hurry, worried and anxious about my brother.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  No. He just told me to find my brother. It showed me he must be in a kind of danger.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:          Because I lived it with open eyes and fully awake.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           Shocked.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           No

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Being unprepared to see him in front of me opening my eyes was frightening so you may call it worst. The best part was seeing him and being warned by him which meant he cares and loves still he was dead.

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Uncertain

I never believed in God, afterlife etc but I always had weird dreams (Which always comes true) and experiences. I decide to connect them to my brain waves. Because I was a very skeptic person and never believed anything science can't explain.

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes

My brother had a very bad car accident at the same minute.

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            He loves us and waves of feelings will be always with us.

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Uncertain

I thought he warned me about my brother.

Did you become aware of future events?       Yes

I always had a kind of awareness of future events.

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         Uncertain

I always had special gifts but I am not sure if they get more after the experience.

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes

They believed me because they already new I had special dreams, senses and experiences.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   Yes

I wrote it to 2-3 web sites but I could get a satisfying explanation.

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       I wish I could have more.

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           Uncertain 

I had many experiences. It may take so long to write all of them. But I can give them specific names may be because my English is not enough to understand and name them from what I read.

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes

You asked, I answered.