Udie D's ADC 

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Experience description:  

Right before I awoke I dreamed a classmate of mine who had passed 30 years almost and maybe to the day came to me in a very real feeling dream.  She told me that I was her "soul mate" and the reason she died so young was that due to a birth defect I had that left me infertile and with low testosterone (now treated) that our relationship would have never been and that my physical problems were due to some pharmaceutical drugs my mother took while she was pregnant with me.  She also encouraged me to be the ultimate person I could be and that I was not living up to my potential.  She said we would be together in a perfect union in a later life and that it will be worth waiting for. 

All I know for certain is I can't stop thinking about it and it has made me feel great and motivated to lose weight and work harder to succeed.

This goes against all my religious beliefs but was very real feeling and is staying with me.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   She spoke in my dream

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  in a dream

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           uncertain but I believe it was her voice

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   no

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            Yes

I felt her touch, like a warm hug

Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   no

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  love

Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  no

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

happy, beautiful, perfect

How clearly did the deceased appear?            solid but in a dream

How much of the deceased did you see?       all

Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       older like mid twenties

How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            great

Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

How long did the experience last?        two night in a row

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         gradual

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

happy but needed to give me a message and an explanation

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  Explained what caused my physical problems and why I feel unfulfilled and why she died so young

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was probably real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:          I haven't thought of her much in years and I hardly knew her.  I am married and can think of no reason to have thought this up.  The experience or dream is still fresh and motivating three days later.  I was moved with a deep grief that I never had for this person before.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   Yes, but clearer and felt real

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           surprised, happy, fulfilled

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

explained a lot and motivated me to strive harder to succeed

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      I feel a completeness I haven't felt before

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes

Describe:      I'm exercising and concentrating on being a better boss, husband, person

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?   Uncertain

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?            Yes, maybe I don't have it all figured out after all

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Uncertain

I need to research when she died if the 24th of April it would be amazing.  I will do that this week

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            very happy but very grieved for her having to die so young

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           No

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   Uncertain

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Yes

She said she would be my spirit guide if I would allow it.  I'm not even sure what that means

Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       Does this sound like it could be real or just an amazing dream?

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes