There has been several occurrences with different close friends. The first 2 incidents happened the night of the wake 9/8/2011. Thomas committed suicide sometime in the very early hours of 9/4/2011. These incidents were both experienced by 2 guys that were lifelong friends of Thomas'. One of them dreamed and saw Thomas, said he said what up buddy like he always did, and the friend reacted with anger. Previous to this the headboard of the bed wouldn't quit hitting the wall despite being held. Not in a repetitive or harsh way though. The other was much different. Our friend woke up to his girlfriend twitching almost in a seizure like way saying "stuck, stuck". When he walked into the kitchen and there were footprints in the kitchen and hand marks on the windows. The feet did not belong to anyone in the house. Yesterday, 9/9/2011 was the funeral and when my boyfriend and I went to go to bed, I asked him to hold me. as I closed my eyes, I saw a plain, black road. I was looking at it at the speed of a car, but a few inches from the ground. My boyfriend closed his eyes and saw a group of many men, all with sad faces, one even crying, another very angry. All whom he did not recognize. The scariest has happened tonight. We dropped my friend off at his girlfriends house (same friend from first night). I called him when I got home to tell him something and he told me something just happened. Thomas was left handed. My friends girlfriend had been dreaming and she dreamed of Thomas in a reflection t-shirt like he wore when he committed suicide. She woke up and "I'm sorry" was carved in her right arm. She is right handed.  

I believe in some way he is saying he is stuck. But I am just amazed and confused and want to understand.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?          No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:    "stuck" was communicated by the girlfriend in an odd voice for her.

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           Yes

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            No

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

How long did the experience last?        Happened the past few days

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  That he was sorry

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was probably real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           I believe there's no way of denying the reality of someone's arm being carved into.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?   No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No
Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Uncertain

2 of the occurrences happened to the girlfriend of  the deceased's lifelong best friend.

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?            Yes

The dream with many men.

Did you see a light?           No

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes    

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No