Kellie H ADC
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Experience description:

I had just moved in with my boyfriend at the time and thought I was happy with him. About a week after the move i dreamed that my grandmother visited me. She never spoke yet I understood everything she was telling me. It was like telepathy. Though I never heard any words in my mind. When she looked at me I just knew what she was trying to tell me. The message I received was that I needed to be with someone else. That I shouldn't be with the man I was with. That there was someone else waiting for me. She pointed to a grave and the message I received when she looked at me was that I needed to leave my current boyfriend or else I would die. I woke up being upset with my grandmother. I was happy. Why would she tell me to leave someone that made me happy? A few days later I found out that my boyfriend had been lying to me and cheating on me with more than one woman. I left him.

A few weeks later, he was in a bad car wreck with his cousin on which his cousin died. Not only did my grandmother let me know that he wasn't the one, she also saved my life. I have seen her again in 2 more dreams since then, but the meaning of the dreams is still yet to be known. Most of the dreams I have of the future seem strange and I won't understand their meaning until I see it play out in real life. It is definitely frustrating that more dreams cant be as straightforward as my grandmother was to me in that dream. And even then I didn't understand why she would tell me what she did until it played out in life.

 Was this experience difficult to express in words?     No

 Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?      No

 Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

           Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   My grandmother told me that I needed to leave the man I was with, that I was supposed to be with someone else, and that I would die if I stayed with him.

           Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?     There were no voices. But when she looked at me I just somehow understood everything she was telling me.

           If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?     No voices

           Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   No

           Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   No

 Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?         No

 Did you see the deceased?       Yes

 She looked the same from when she was alive but before she got sick. She was wearing a dress but I don't remember the details of the dress

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            She was solid but there seemed to be a strange sort of fog around everything

            How much of the deceased did you see?       I remember the full body but I don't remember seeing her feet

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?           She looked like she did before she got sick

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            She seemed normal.

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   No

 Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? No

 How long did the experience last?      Under a minute

 Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?       After she pointed to a grave and told me I would die if I stayed with him I woke up suddenly

 Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          Yes

 It just felt matter of fact. She was telling me what I needed to know.

 Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  They told me I shouldn't be with the man I was with and that someone else was waiting for me and that I would die if I stayed with him. She saved me from a bad relationship and saved my life

 How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

           Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:   I just know it was her. And the messages she sent me turned out to be true.

           Was the experience dream like in any way?  Yes

 I was asleep, dreaming

 Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  I couldn't understand why my grandmother was telling me to leave someone that made me happy. It made no sense to me at the time.

 Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? Yes

 I left my boyfriend and realized he definitely wasn't right for me. I was brokenhearted yet relieved that I didn't make a huge mistake and marry someone that was wrong for me.

 What was the best and worst part of your experience?          Worst part was not understand why my grandmother would tell me to leave someone that made me happy.

 Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? Yes                Describe:     I'm alive and happily married

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?      Yes    I just felt a little less lost. Like there was someone looking out for me and there was some kind of plan

 Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?         Yes    Made me realize that we do still exist somewhere after we die

 Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?    No

 Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes I was told I would die if I stayed with him and then after I left him he was in a bad car accident and his cousin died. And prior to that I found out he was not the right person for me.
What emotions did you feel during the experience?          Sadness and confusion and some anger

 Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          No

 Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

 Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?         No

 Did you become aware of future events?      Yes

 Only made aware because my grandmother told me

 Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?      Yes

I live with paranormal activity and continue to become more sensitive to my surroundings and other realities. I have astral projected

 Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?   No

 Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?   No

 Did you see a light?        No

 Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?     Yes

 It was outdoors but there was a strange fog everywhere.

 Have you shared this experience with others?       Yes    They believed me

 Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?         No

  Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?   No

 Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?          No

 Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?       No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event? Yes 

I have astral projected a few times. I was only researching astral projection because I wanted to know for sure if we exist without the body. Now I have no doubts.

 Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?           Yes