I lost my father over 2 years ago. I wasn't there when he passed but the experience I had was that a week to the day that he passed. I was in my kitchen I was just doing my dishes and as I finished them I went to turn around and at the time my kitchen light started making a buzzing noise and started flickering which I have never had before or after.  As I looked up to the kitchen light ,I felt like a surge of electricity go through me up my back and I began to shake a little my first thoughts were of my Dad. The experience I felt was very profound I had never in my life felt anything like that before or since.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?     No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?      Uncertain

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          No

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?         No

Did you see the deceased?       No

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? No

How long did the experience last?      about 20-30 seconds

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?       sudden

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          No

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  no

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

          Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:   I have never had an experience like this before or after

          Was the experience dream like in any way?  No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  hard to describe I had no feelings I was just about to turn around from the kitchen sink and the experience then happened like if it was waiting for me to finish my dishes

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? No

What was the best and worst part of your experience?          nothing bad or good

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? No     

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?      No     

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  No     

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?    No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?         I was not upset or happy I was just a bit shocked at what had happened

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          No

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?         No

Did you become aware of future events?      No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?      No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?   No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?   No

Did you see a light?        No

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?     No

Have you shared this experience with others?       Yes    I told my children my brother my girlfriend they were surprised

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?         No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?          No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?       No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event? No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?           Yes

Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.       there is one thing that is not related to this experience that I had about 3-4 years ago. I was in my car during a lunch break and something happened to me it felt like a premonition if I could describe it like that. I felt that something really horrible was going to happen in about 3-4 years time but it didn't tell me what, all I know is the experience I felt was that in 3-4 years something bad is going to happen during that time I lost my dad and we have had the corona virus so it could be any one of them. I did feel a fear of some kind. I told many people about this. its funny that I couldn't identify what bad thing was going to happen but knew something bad was going to happen.