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Experience description:

It was an experience that I could not explain and I found miraculous. I wonder if the deceased father of my friend was trying to communicate to my friend through me. The movie was so similar to him. He was a painter and a psychic who forged a strong spiritual relationship is wife. The movie was about a painter who lost his wife but tried to reach her through his paintings. I found it a rather boring movie but miraculously recited every word of the dialogue before it was said. I had never seen the movie before and years later tried to repeat the experience and had no idea what the actors were about to say. It even freaked my friend out who took interest in paranormal experiences. We eventually broke up suddenly. He left after that with no real word or reason. I knew that that would happen from the day I met him but I hoped it wouldn't. It worked out for the better because I think his friend knew it was for the best.

Was this experience difficult to express in words? No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?      No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

          Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   Like i said, i recited the dialogue of the movie before the actors said it. The movie was him, about a painter who was trying to connect with his loved ones through his art.

          Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?     Inside of me. I don't know how. It wasn't scary. It was just an exercise.

          If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?     It was my voice but not words that I could possibly of known

          Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   no

          Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   absolutely not

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?         No

Did you see the deceased?       No

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? No

How long did the experience last?      at least 30 minutes. for most of the movie but I had to stop because my friend did not like it.

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?       gradual

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          Uncertain

I felt very calm and relaxed. An enjoyable experience except that it upset my friend.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  Not me per se but perhaps my friend. Maybe it made me more aware of a bigger world.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

          Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:   It was broad daylight, I was with a friend. It happened over a long period of time. We both witnessed it/ experienced it. We weren't seeking it. It just happened.

          Was the experience dream like in any way?  No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  For me it was just fun. For my friend, I think it was alarming.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? Yes

I think it gave some meaning and healing to my friend. I think that the deceased father figure made sure that we weren't together because he wanted to take care of us.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?     It was fun. My friend was freaked out by it instead of intrigued/

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? Yes                Describe:     I believe that the deceased father helped lead us apart for the better. I realized that there was a spiritual world out there and my life could be much more meaningful than what I had been living.

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?      Uncertain     It was remarkable and I wondered how it could be/

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?         Uncertain     It was peculiar and bewildering. I didn't associate it at the time with the deceased friend. I thought that the dialogue must just be so cliché that everyone could guess what was being said but that wasn't the case.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?    No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes

What emotions did you feel during the experience?
         
Upset that my friend didn't like it. Confused by what had happened.

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          Yes

I was with a friend who witnessed it.

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?         No

Did you become aware of future events?      Uncertain

I knew that our relationship would end but I never discovered why.

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?      Yes

When I visit historical places my body will tell me what happened there or about the people that were there. I have not pursued this because I I don't think it serves anyone currently and it just makes me feel crazy.

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?   No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?   No

Did you see a light?        Uncertain

It was very light outside at the time. A big window was open.

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?     No

Have you shared this experience with others?      

Yes    but not many. most people didn't know what to say/

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?         No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?          No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?       No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event? Yes 

Yes a few years ago in child birth I lost so much blood that my heart started shutting down. I received many transfusions and when I awoke I realized I was in the most wonderful places of love and acceptance and infinity that I had every experienced. After that I just longed to go home.

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?           No

I didn't hear ghosts or see phantoms.