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I have always been very close to my child and this since my boy was young. It happened that we were talking about death and more specifically about my own. During our discussions I promised him that during my 'departure' to the other world I would come visiting him under the form of a bird and that he for sure would recognize me, we had been laughing a lot. Unfortunately my son died on the 29th of March 2016 in a car accident, he was 27 years old, he was, as I can assure you, a very beautiful person. After his death, at the funeral home, with his mother we had the habit to accompany him until 2am in the morning. One night before leaving I asked my baby, forehead to forehead, to send me a message to tell me that he was fine. We left the funeral home, we are living about 20 kilometers away. It is close to 3am in the morning, it's very cold, we are in the car in the countryside when we my partner and I, suddenly see a globe of fire of the size of a big ball of soccer, crossing the street in front of our vehicle. This ball was crossing horizontally above the street (at less than 10 meters height), quite softly and it crashed into a field at our right. Stupor was so strong that I even didn't think for a moment to stop in order to look at the place of landing.

I have always been the most hermetic type of the earth for this kind of stories and now I know that there is a follow up. I'm thanking my child for his message and I'm sharing it with everybody.


 J’ai toujours été très proche de mon enfant et depuis que mon garçon était petit, ils nous arrivaient de parler de la mort et plus particulièrement de la mienne. Lors de nos discussions, je lui avais promis que lors de mon « départ » dans l’autre monde je viendrais le voir sous forme d’un oiseau et que sans nul doute il me reconnaîtrait, nous avons beaucoup ri. Malheureusement mon fils est décédé le 29 mars 2016 dans un accident de voiture, il avait 27 ans, c’était je vous l’assure une très belle personne. Après son décès, au funérarium, nous avions pris l’habitude avec sa maman de l’accompagner jusqu’à 2 heures du matin. Une nuit avant de rentrer chez nous j’ai demandé, front contre front, à mon bébé de m’envoyer un message pour me dire qu’il était bien. Nous quittons le funérarium, nous habitons à 20 kilomètres, Il est près de 3 heures du matin, il fait très froid, nous sommes en voiture en pleine campagne quand soudain nous avons vu, ma compagne et moi-même, traverser à 20 mètres devant notre véhicule une boule de feu de la taille d’un gros ballon de football. Cette boule a traversée horizontalement au-dessus de la route (moins de 10 mètres de hauteur), assez doucement et elle s’est écrasée dans un champ sur notre droite. La stupeur a été tellement forte que je n’ai pas songé un instant à m’arrêter pour voir le lieu de l’atterrissage.

J’étais le type le plus hermétique de la terre à ce genre d’histoire et maintenant je sais qu’il y a une suite, je remercie mon enfant de son message  et je le partage avec tous.

 Was this experience difficult to express in words?          No

 Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?      Yes

 Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          No

 Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?         No

 Did you see the deceased?       No

 Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? No

 How long did the experience last?      30 secondes 30 seconds

 Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          No

 Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  non

 How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

           Was the experience dream like in any way?  No

 Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  nous avons été stupéfait et 'heureux'   We have been amazed and 'happy'

 What was the best and worst part of your experience?     Strange question... The best part is simply to know that our son is somewhere, that most probably on the day of our departure we will meet again and can laugh again like before this accident.     Drôle de question... La meilleure partie c'est tout simplement de savoir que notre fils est quelque part, que sans doute le jour de notre propre départ nous nous retrouverons ensemble et nous pourrons rire comme avant cet accident.

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?      Uncertain  I still don't believe in a God, whatever kind, but I know that not everything stops at our death, I have proof of this and this is the most beautiful gift that Dadou could give me. I now think that our consciousness has it's own life in our bodily envelope.   Je ne crois toujours pas en un Dieu quel qu’il soit, mais je sais que tout ne s’arrête pas notre décès, j'en ai la preuve et c'est le plus beau cadeau que pouvait me faire Dadou. Je pense maintenant que notre conscience à sa propre vie sans notre enveloppe corporelle.

 Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?    Yes  I had concluded this type of 'agreement' with my son, but it was more like a joke between us, as I really had been very Cartesian and was persuaded that nothing would await us after death, but dust and ashes.

Oui, j'avais passé ce type de 'contrat' avec mon fils mais c'était plus une plaisanterie entre nous car en vérité j'étais extrêmement cartésien et j'étais persuadé que rien ne nous attendait après la mort si ce n'est de la poussière ou des cendres.

 Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?          stupéfaction, étonnement, chaleur  Stupor, amazement, warmth.

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          Yes  My partner, the mother of my son was at my side in the car.

 Ma compagne, la maman de mon fils, était à mes cotés dans la voiture

 Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

 Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?         Yes The message was strong: “THERE IS A CONTINUATION, DON'T WORRY, I'M FINE”.

 Le message était fort, 'IL Y A UNE SUITE, NE T’INQUIÈTE PAS, JE SUIS BIEN'

 Did you become aware of future events?      No

 Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?      No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?   No

 Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?   No

 Did you see a light?        No

 Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?     No

 Have you shared this experience with others?    Yes  I told these facts to various persons of my entourage, I consider that this must be shared (the cause of my presence on your site). I'm persuaded that this could help other people in difficult moments of life. If I had been alone at the moment of the facts, I probably would have been convinced that I had a hallucination, but we had been two people seeing exactly the same thing at the same moment. I don't know if my surrounding is thinking that I have been cracking up and really I don't care as I know what we have seen. 

J'ai raconté ces faits à diverses personnes de mon entourage, je considère que cela doit être partagé (d'ou ma présence sur votre site), je suis persuadé que cela pourrait aider d'autres personnes dans les moments difficiles de la vie. Si j'avais été seul au moment des faits, je serais sans doute persuadé d'avoir eu une hallucination mais nous étions deux à voir exactement la même chose au même instant. je ne sais si mon entourage pense que j'ai disjoncté et en vérité je m'en fiche car je sais ce que nous avons vu.

 Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?         No

  Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?   No and I thank you that you gave me the occasion to express myself. 
non et je vous remercie de m'avoir offert l'occasion de m'exprimer ainsi.

 Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?          No

 Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?       No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event? No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?           Yes