Tina F ADC
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Experience description:

I have been crying every day for hours since my best friend died.

The pain actually hurts my heart

I haven't been able to sleep.  Last night I finally dozed off and heard Lisa's voice loud and clear but I couldn't make out the words

When I opened my eyes her face was right in front of my face and she started to laugh then in a split second she was gone

I sat straight up in bed. I got up and went to my closet and put on a robe, it smelled like Lisa

I thought maybe my mind was playing tricks on me but it felt so real

Did she visit me to stop me from crying?

 Was this experience difficult to express in words?     No

 Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?      No

 Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

           Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   She said something I know it was her voice, couldn't make out words but heard her laugh

           Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?     Externally

           If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?     Similar

           Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   No

           Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   No

 Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?         No

 Did you see the deceased?       Yes

 The same, she looked happy

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            Clear as day. She had on a yellow t shirt which I've never seen her in.

            How much of the deceased did you see?       Face and shoulders

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?           Same age

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            Very healthy

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   No

 Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? Yes

           What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?          I could smell her laundry detergent she used

           Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?          Familiar on her clothes, I could smell her scent on my robe in my closet

           Was anything communicated by the smell?  No

           Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?         No

 How long did the experience last?      Seconds

 Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?       Sudden

 Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          Yes

 Happy

 Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  No

 How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

           Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:   Lisa's face and voice were crystal clear

           Was the experience dream like in any way?  No

 Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  Shocked

 Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? Uncertain

 At first I wasn't sure if my mind was playing tricks on me but it felt too real.

 What was the best and worst part of your experience?     I am happy I saw Lisa laughing but wish she stayed longer

 Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? Uncertain                 Describe:     I'm a Pisces and an Empathy. I feel people and animals pain.  Sometimes it's overwhelming  I think she wanted to comfort me

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?      No     

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  Uncertain    

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?   No

 Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?          Confused

 Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          No

 Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

 Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?         No

 Did you become aware of future events?      No

 Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?      No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?   No

 Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?   No

 Did you see a light?        No

 Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?     No

 Have you shared this experience with others?      Yes    My boyfriend believed me.

 Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?         No

 Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?          No

 Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?       No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event? No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?           Yes