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ADCRF fait partie d'une triade de sites web qui est destinée à collecter de l'information sur tous les aspects de la conscience. Le site web principal est www.nderf.org qui étudie les expériences de mort imminente (EMI). L'autre site est www.oberf.org et étudie tous les autres aspects de la conscience qui ne sont pas une EMI ou une CALM.

Vue Générale ADCRF (Ancien site)
Histoires de CALM archivées 2003-2007
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Livres, Sites web et vidéos Qui Peuvent être d'intérêt pour ceux qui sont en deuil.

Expérience de Mort Imminente, NDERF
Fondation de Recherche sur les Expériences de Sortie Hors du Corps, OBERF

Tableau d'Affichage du Spectre Spirituel - Un des meilleurs moyens pour discuter de ces sujets et rencontrer des gens du même avis.

Par où commencer? Essayez la page d'index avec une liste des contenus complets d'ADCRF.  Beaucoup de personnes aiment aussi juste commencer à lire les CALM
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AJOUTS LES PLUS RECENTS DU WEB:

Love Lives On: Learning from the Extraordinary Encounters of the Bereaved (par Lou E. LaGrand 6/1/07

Document de Recherche ADCRF par Jody Long, J.D.  18/2/05

Le Deuil – Ses Cinq Composantes, Par Rev. John Price 5/3/05

Les Enfants et le Deuil
 

BOOKS:

#1 ADC Book -  Hello from Heaven! by Bill Guggenheim & Judy - Available at Amazon.com: Books: Hello from Heaven


 

A Swan in Heaven: Conversations Between Two Worlds,” by Terri Daniel

RECHERCHE:

 « Les Expériences Exclusives, Universelles et Multiples des CALM » par James A. Houck, Ph.D. 09/10/04  « S'il vous plaît, ne croyez pas que je suis fou, mais,,, » est typiquement comment la plupart des conversations commencent autour du sujet de la Communication Après la Mort (CALM). La plupart de la recherche dans ce domaine a été faite à partir d'une approche qualitative (ex: interviews structurés), qui est un excellent moyen pour les gens pour commencer à raconter leurs histoires et comparer des expériences similaires avec d'autres personnes désespérées. Pourtant, y a t-il d'autres moyens pour mesurer statistiquement la fréquence et la singularité de telles expériences? En d'autres mots, les CALM sont-elles hasardeuses, déterminées à des types de populations spécifiques ou à des groupes endeuillés? 

FAQ INTERESSANTE:

Nous avons analysé 238 contributions sur notre site web CALM en explorant la relation entre le défunt et la personne reportant la CALM. Nous avons trouvé que 46 (19%) des contacts se sont produits dans les 24 heures ou moins. De façon intéressante, 35 (76 %) des 46 contacts se sont produits entre parents par le sang. Seulement 5 (14%) se sont produits entre des personnes importantes.
UN GRAND MERCI va vers ceux qui ont soumis leurs expériences sur le site web, afin que nous puissions obtenir d'importants aperçus sur le phénomène des CALM!

FAQ IMPORTANTE:

COLLEEN S:  Donc la « recherche » montre que les autres personnes ont ces rêves? Quelles autres pensées avez-vous sur ces scénarios de rêve sur la mort?

JODY:  Je pense personnellement qu'être dans un état altéré de conscience (le rêve) rend cela plus facile pour les êtres chers qui sont décédés pour communiquer avec nous sur terre. Loin d'être non-probant, j'affirmerais le contraire. La manière dont nous traitons notre réalité est qu'avant que notre subconscient n'alerte nous esprit conscient, la donnée doit passer par un test de seuil. Si c'est important, alors le subconscient va permettre à la donnée d'emménager dans notre niveau d'esprit conscient ou rationnel. Dans l'état de rêve, ce seuil peut être moins important, puisque nous n'avons pas la surcharge des données de veille venant des 5 sens. Par conséquent, la communication qui peut normalement être capable de se produire dans un état de rêve ou à moitié endormi, nous atteindrait plus facilement que dans l'état de conscience de veille.
 


Voici nos expériences les plus récentes: 

Willa P ADC 1/25/09 Mom died unexpectedly while I was away at college.  I got home that evening, spent time with my dad and sister, then went to bed in the bed that mom had used for many years.  I was awake, devastated, and crying very hard when I suddenly beCALMe aware of a light, or glow, and feeling of warmth.  I looked up at the doorway and Mom was standing there in her old blue bathrobe, with the most glorious smile on her face and this light sort of in and surrounding her...she asked, "Why are you crying?  I am happier than I've ever been."  I immediately was comforted.
ADC from mother.  Experience shared 46 years after it happened.

Jackie G ADCs 1/25/09  Lot of things happened with my dad's passing.  I live 1000 miles away and he died on 8/31/02 at 9 pm and mom called me at 11 pm at 3 a.m. I am talking to her again on the phone and packing as I do this at the same time I hear a pop on the phone everyone with her at her house saw a huge flash of light shoot thru the dining room (my father died at the dining room table after dinner).
Multiple ADCs

Dorothy S ADC #2 1/17/09 Exceptional As we walked towards the exit which were the same doors we entered thru, as the doors slid open, my sister was in front of me and I was right behind her and she was talking about something when all of a sudden I heard "Dorse!". Now my name is Dorothy, but only my parents and all of my brothers and sisters have always called me "Dorse".  No one else calls me that. When I heard "Dorse!" I stopped as I stepped out the door and both my sister and I just completely froze. I told my sister "Oh MY GOD!" "Is that Calvin?" We were stunned, I'm telling you we froze and he kept on calling me "Dorse!" and at the same time he was walking towards us-he looked, walked, and talked exactly like my brother. He kept on "Hey, Dorse!" and then he was mumbling something, but I could not make out what it was he was trying to tell me. My sister was like " Oh my God, Oh my God.." And I remember saying "Oh my God, is that Calvin? How can that be? but I saw him in the coffin?"
Stunning ADC from deceased brother.  Witnessed by her sister.

  Donella B ADC 1/17/09 So, thinking for a moment, I tried to sound casual, "Hey, when's the last time you saw a doctor?"  "Why?"  My brother asked suspiciously.  I thought for a moment.  "Uh, because Daddy told me to tell you there might be an issue with your heart."  My brother was noticeably shocked. "I didn't tell anybody..."  He began.  "But this weekend I was having chest pains and I went to the emergency room."  He then went on to say that he hadn't even revealed this information to his wife, who had spent the weekend with their son visiting her family.  He also went on to say that he submitted to a few tests but eventually wound up leaving the hospital without undergoing a thorough battery of tests because he was getting impatient with having to spend so many hours in the hospital.  I asked him to go back and he agreed.  Later, after undergoing a battery of tests, my brother emerged with a clean bill of health.  We were both grateful and amazed that Daddy, after all these years was still watching out for his children.
Clairvoyant dream with information about a brother’s possible heart problem.

  Eric ADC 1/17/09  I am Roman Catholic and was being confirmed. Usually in church, I sit with my family but when you are getting confirmed you sit with your confirmation class. What I am about to say is very important to the experience so please pay close attention. I was sitting in a group of people so there were people in all around me. If you are Roman Catholic and live in New England you know that people look straight forward and talking is very inappropriate. Everyone was looking straight ahead when this happened. I was thinking to myself "There is no such thing as God" and all this other negative stuff when I heard my name whispered 3 times in my ear. I felt a weird air pressure change in my ear and it was neither hot nor cold but somewhat tickled.
Several ADCs described.

Marie B ADC 1/10/09 We got very close and as we did I felt this immense pull/attraction like she was a magnet. She was wearing a very long blue dress. She said, "don't touch me", and then she said, "Tell Eugene to kiss me goodbye." She looked younger like I remembered her looking when I was a child. I then suddenly woke up. I didn't understand the message, but told my uncle anyway. I tried to tell him that she was indeed alive in that other dimension, but he couldn't understand.  He then told me that every night at bedtime he says to her picture, "Goodnite Jeana." But in my dream she was telling me she wanted him to kiss her GOODBYE. He didn't understand. He went on grieving for a long time, and then he joined her a few yrs later. He also told me that at the funeral she was wearing a very long blue dress...
ADC dream from deceased Aunt.

  Jeannie B ADC 1/10/09 The year 2008 had been a difficult year for my mom. It started in January as she had a heart attack and flat lined in the ambulance; she would tell us later that during that time, our father CALMe to her and wanted her to go with him, but she told him she was not ready… My mom ndation de Recherche sur les Expériences de Sortie Hors du Corped bypass on her lower leg. It would have to be amputated, but she would have to receive antibiotics for a week before, and during this time she cried out in pain all through the night and day. I read the bible and prayed for her as it helped her to rest. I was standing by her side, praying out loud as she seemed tSongez à partager votre expérience avec nous, s'il vous plaît (Cliquez Ce Lien)ien)ien) . . . y dad and an angel. They were not in solid form, but I could not see through them either. The angel stood to my father's right side, and neither looked at me. They both had their right arms extended out to my mother. They were focused on her, and it seemed as if they were coming for her.
ADC from father near the time of death of her mother.

LSA ADC 1/2/09 While I was there I picked several weeds from the grave site while I was talking out loud to him.  I tossed the weeds over outside the grave and then something CALMe over me that compelled me to pick up the weeds, place them in the cup I had in the car, and return with the weeds to Atlanta.  When I got home I placed the weed in a flower pot.  My husband, who is a wonderful and very understanding man, asked me what in the world I was doing.  I explained to him where the weed CALMe from and he just smiled.  That was in early July.  TC died on Labor Day in 1987.  This past Labor Day CALMe and went - 21 years since he had passed.  It was the first time I had gone through the day without reliving the whole thing - somewhat of a sense of peace finally after 21 years.  That night I sat in the bathroom and realized that for the first time in 21 years I had not cried for him on that day.  I asked him to give me a sign - of course there was no lightning bolt or other immediate sign that we all expect, instead the next morning I woke up, went outside to take the trash to the street and there sat in the flower pot the weed I had picked with about 150 beautiful tiny pink blooms.  I began to cry as once again I knew that was TC's way of connecting with me.
ADCs from first love boyfriend.

  Stephanie M ADCs 1/2/09 They walked me out to my car. It was in a dimly lit part of the parking lot. The moment I stepped into the gravel of the parking lot, I saw him. He was sitting in the car, waiting for me. I could see his coat, his ball cap, every outline of him. He was sitting behind the wheel of the car. I paused, almost stopped, but I knew it was okay to move towards him. There was nothing for me to fear. I knew it wasn't his body, his earthly being. I knew it was him, his spiritual being, waiting to escort me home, to make sure I got home safely. I could see him move to the passenger's seat when I got to the car. They didn't see him, but I didn't fear that I was crazy or that anything was wrong. All was as it was meant to be. I drove away with him beside me. I talked to him on the way home. I talked to him about how to get out of the city he had died in since I didn't know how to. He told me but not out loud. I would have missed turns if he hadn't.
Multiple ADCs.

  Anita C ADC 1/2/09 He was also looking at himself up and down and thinking how strange he looked. I made a joke that it looked like he had Botox and he laughed. then we went outside on the street and I noticed that he was not walking but was almost 2 inches off the ground floating. I told him how upset I was and he said to me that I shouldn't be upset that where he went was 'cool'. he said to me do you want to see where I went and I said yes. by now I was holding our 9 year old daughters hand and he led me to an entrance, a large round glowing white light entrance. he told me I had to leave Anya outside and I had to come in but leave as soon as I went in to the circle.
ADC from deceased husband.

  Kerri ADC 1/2/09 The next morning on Christmas mom told me that at 11:50 pm (the time of his death three years before), she was looking at my dad's picture and also joking with him saying "this is your job.  you should be here to wrap this for me".  Suddenly the chandelier went from full brightness to complete darkness, very slowly. It wasn't like a brown out.  It slowly went pitch dark.  Then the lights went back up.  This happened twice.  She was overwhelmed with emotion.  When she finished crying she went back to the heavy box and turned it over no problem.  Her arm did not hurt again in the least even though she has severe damage in the shoulder.  She wrapped the gift effortlessly.  On Christmas Day she was nervous about lifting the turkey into the oven because it was so heavy.  Once again her shoulder insDocument de Recherche hen I told my mom I had asked dad to blink the lights and help her, at the exact moment that the lights blinked, she couldn't believe it.
ADC from father on Christmas Eve.

Shannon W. ADC 12/27/08  **Ted, father.  1.  Immediately after he had passed we were ushered into his room.  I was with my mother, daughter, and husband.  We were all crying.  I suddenly had a feeling of peace and I said "It's okay, it's okay. Look, dad is not having any trouble.  It's okay."  I then "saw" what reminds me of the cosmos...or a black starry night spinning in my dad's chest.  It was spinning very very fast and moving up his body and finally exploding out of the top of his head.  It was beautifComment est-ce que je peux communiquer avec mes êtres chers une nouvelle fois?sitting outside of the hospital.  I had my eyes closed and suddenly could feel my dad standing behind me with his hands on my shoulders.  I don't know if I felt or heard him say (in my head) that everything was okay and that he loved me.
Joanne H ADC 12/15/2008 when I opened my eyes there he was in living color, I sat up and asked him why he was here he said I want you to tell your mother that I have just put a yellow envelope in the bottom dresser drawer for her only it is not for anyone else but her, so I said ok and then he asked me how was doing and I said ok but I miss you, he said I know but you don't need to worry I'm doing great, make sure you watch over your grandma, soon I will be coming for her, and then he said he had to go, he leaned down and kissed me on my forehead and then he was gone… here's the kicker the next day my mom had told me that my grandfathers cane and jacket were laying on top of the dresser, she insisted that the items were put in the closet and the drawer where I said the envelope was, she said that she had cleaned the drawers out but when she opened the drawer it was filled back up and the envelope on top. Two ADCs, both evidential.

Vicki W ADC 12/15/2008 They said a blood vessel burst and it was only a matter of time. No one wanted me to go in the room alone but they were typing to help my grandmother. I told them I was going in no matter what.  I walked in alone and as I stepped to the end of his bed something happened.  I could not feel sadness. It was like an overwhelming sense of joy, peace, love, warmth, and a sense of knowing that its ok.  It was something more then words can ever describe.  I walked to the side of the bed and said goodbye grandpa and all I could do is smile because I was so filled with joy or something I couldn't explain and knew he was fine.  After that I handled his death very well helping my grandmother deal with his death.
Premonition of Grandfather’s death and ADC.

  Susan ADC 12/15/2008 I proceeded to my parents' house afterwards, and sat down at their kitchen table to visit with my mom.  Valentine's Day wasn't far off, and she happened to have a dish of "conversation" candy hearts on the table.  I nonchalantly grabbed one, and looked down to see that it read, "Miss Me?".  I couldn't believe it.  What were the odds?  I couldn't even remember seeing that message on a candy heart before.  I proceeded to take a series of hearts from the dish without looking, and recorded their words, in order, until they no longer seemed to compose a message.  My message, from my grandmother, read like this:  "Miss Me?  Yes.  Foxy.  It's True.  See You.  Goodbye.  Smile."  I still get goose bumps when I read this! Faîtes d'ADCRF votre Page d'Accueil! Cliquez sur ce lienez sur ce liendfather had given me when I was little -- even giving me a plaFaîtes d'ADCRF votre Cliquez sur ce lien an>
ADC in remarkable manner from deceased Grandmother.

  Sherie M ADC 12/15/2008  I was preparing to go to sleep.  I have just closed my eyes then I heard the door of my room open and close but there was no one there because it was just me and my husband at home and my husband was fast asleep.  Then, I closed my eyes again, and there--- in front of me is a spirit.  I asked the spirit who it was and she said she's my beloved maternal grandmother who passed away in 2002.  We had a short conversation but what was weird is that we spoke through mind/feelings, not with the use of physical body. I didn't see my grandma's physical form but I just knew it was her.  She said she just wanted to see me and know how I was doing.  I heard her chuckle as well but I heard this through feelings.  After this conversation, I saw her kiss my left cheek and she said goodbye.  Throughout this whole experience, we used feelings, not the physical body. And while this was happening, I wasn't afraid.  It was as if this was the most normal thing to do-- to talk to a deceased grandmother.
ADC from Grandmother.

Scott J ADC 12/10/2008 My mom died hen I was in my mid twenties (I'm now 45). She CALMe into my room the night of her funeral. I wasn't asleep but was on the bed, lying face down. I was totally wigging out about her being gone, other issues that weren't good and had just jumped onto the bed and I had my fists clinched under the pillow and my teeth clinched and my face buried in the pillow. She CALMe in near the wall and ceiling, I didn't look, I just felt it. I could feel her presence - it was unmistakable. She said to me (like straight into my brain, but in her voice) "Everything is okay." I got the sense she was talking about my life and not where she was. My gut reaction was BS! and then the list of why not's. She patiently waited for me to finish and then said it again: "Everything is okay". It was at that point when I realized I was having a conversation with my mom, who had returned from the other side to talk to me and I'd better tune in. She said it again and I asked her, what do you mean, everything? And she simply said "Everything............." but she said it in a way that was truly all encompassing and I could feel her pulling back right at that moment. She went out like a subtle whoosh and when she did, she pulled all that emotional negativity I had in me right out through the top of my head, my fingers and toes. I had the most awesome sense of peace. Too cool.
ADC with mom.

Heather ADC 12/8/2008  A few moments after closing my eyes I appeared in the living room of my grandparents former house.  I looked out toward the plate glass window that led out onto their back deck and saw my deceased grandmother looking out the window.  I began to approach her and she turned and smiled at me.  Then she said very matter-of-factly.  "Heather, you have to tell Brenda to go to the doctor.  She has cancer."  (Brenda was my mom and her daughter)... She told me my mom had cancer and my mom did have cancer.  Had it not been for the vision I would not have urged my mom who was against doctors to go and get checked.
ADC with possibly life-saving information.  Also, a NDE is briefly described.

Dalry M ADC 12/1/2008 From Malaysia Monday, June 30, 2008……I’m asleep in my apartment in Malaysia. Suddenly I'm wide awake and sitting up. They have come to me ...the dead people who had been blown up in the suicide bombing I’d been witness to in Jerusalem. They surge into my consciousness on the crest of a cleansing wave. When they have my attention they speak as one. 'We're so pleased that you've finally got it right ….what you've written about the bombing. Now at last we can move! I ask the question that’s been on my mind for 6 years “What about the ..... bomber?”  In one voice they reply “The young woman who fate chose as the instrument? She’s here with us……she’s one of us… she has forgiven and been forgiven. She has taken responsibility for her life….and for her death. Now she is free! That’s why we’ve come. To let the world know…..not just humans but the WHOLE WORLD and EVERYTHING ON IT….. that if WE can forgive THEY CAN FORGIVE!
Background: April 12, 2002: At least six people were killed and more than 80 wounded in the blast, which detonated near the crowded Mahane Yehuda market in Jerusalem. Police said the bomber, described as a young woman, loitered near the open-air shopping area before setting off "a very powerful bomb" at a nearby bus stop.  A planned meeting between U.S. Secretary of State Colin Powell and Palestinian leader Yasser Arafat has been delayed at least a day…
Dramatic witness to carnage after bombing and message from those killed in the bombing.  Call for a Freedom Week: “This is what you’re to send out:  ON BEHALF OF ALL THOSE OF US WHO MET A VIOLENT END…….WE CALL ON YOU THE LIVING TO INITIATE A FREEDOM WEEK to conclude on the 11.11.2011.”

  Patti O ADC 12/1/2008 About halfway through the flight I closed my eyes - still not tired - and saw her - she looked beautiful.  There were hundreds of people around her, and she was raised on a platform - at the time I described it as looking like the marble steps at the Lincoln Memorial, but now I don't remember seeing the steps.  She was raised up, sun shining on her, hair blowing in a slight breeze.  There were colors more spectacular than I've ever seen, and the people around (below) her were loving and peaceful.  She smiled at me and waved with both hands raised about as high as her head.  Then I woke up.  I wish I looked at my watch, then I'd know if that happened at the exact moment that she died.
ADC from Mother before she knew she was deceased.

  Katherine S ADC 12/1/2008 Then I went out into the hall and looked at our secretary, where my mother’s statue of the Blessed Virgin had turned all the way to the right, facing our bedroom.  (There is a story that goes with this statue.  My mother was a very devout Catholic.  At one time in her spiritual journey, she used to say the rosary and picture the Virgin Mary in her mind.  When she would open her eyes, she would find that her statue would have turned facing her.  This happened several times, and it scared her, so she stopped praying so intently.  Since then, she had given the statue to me, because she knew I honored her experience.)  I had just looked at it the day before, and it was straight.
Multiple ADCs from deceased mother.


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